Thanks for the replies and I'm glad some actually understand what the message is.
It is not just here that I refer to but everywhere..
The Sweet talk is practiced to gain a certain goal. Knowing full well that it is false and lies.. and not caring who gets hurt in their path.
But there are just as many wanting to believe, what they down deep know is just fairy tales.
to me this is so dishonest, is why I put in my profile.. under what I'm looking for.. must be Honest.
but for those who are just looking for a fantasy escape.. that is also your right.
This is not so much giving advice, but one needs to know why they are here.. just fantasy or looking for something real for the future. 1. you need to be able to see if the other person you are chatting with is real or fantasy.
2.if you choose fantasy... then don't be shocked if later, you decide to take what has been built up to a great fantasy and decide it should be real.
That is when you are begging to get deeply hurt.
Some of us here are exactly who and what we say we are. some are nothing but Illusion.
I am so sorry Froggy, but things just can't continue between us
I need a lady that is willing to do things for me, Like: Cook for me and wash my dishes, pick up my dirty cloths from the floor and wash them for me, run to get me another beer while I watch the game, A woman that don't mind if I sit on the couch and play video games all night and sleep all day, I really need a woman that can bring in a good income, so I don't need to work...A good woman like this I could truly love and spend the rest of my life with her.. I know how deeply you love me and how much pain it is causing you to loose me.. Please be strong.. By the way...would you please bring the rest of my stuff to my Mom's house?
Seriously... Face to face is the only way.. and I have always talked to them ahead of time about what the problem was that needed to be addressed. But since I am not a screamer.. they refused to believe my words.
I even told my Ex that she would be getting the divorce papers in a few days.....just so it wouldn't be a shock.
Unfortunately....... there is no good way to break up. people always get hurt.
I recently seen a guy that makes a living/Killing making and selling real casket furniture,, Entertainment centers, coffee tables and so on.. you take the furniture apart and all of the pieces are precut to assembly into a casket.
My house is also over a hundred years old. Actually had a well in the basement. never seen that before
it is a shame. Im sure most people remember when I first came here, I usually made a lot of people laugh and enjoyed light hearted conversation.
But I myself have drastically changed over time because of so many nasty attacks and 2nd profile people attacking me.. acting nice and friendly with original profile, then create a second to attack and be nasty.
this has made it so difficult to trust anyone and made me more bitter and hard.
exactly!!! So many say whatever they know will sound good and gain them friends,, no matter how fake it is. have also seen a few real people. that is the only reason I stay.
but the honest and real people have a hard time surviving because many others really want to be buttered up and made to feel good, even if it is fake.
So many of us have been hurt, some of us many times, we get lied to and played with, used and discarded. Are we looking for the right things, The right signs?
Do you really want what you think you want?
Heres what I mean. Everyone knows the old saying.. you attract more flies with honey than with vinegar. people looking for a mate know this also so they can put on such a sweet act-- for a while. and it seems so many fall for the act.. because it is so easy to fall for the one that says just the words we want to hear.
But consider. Do you really give it enough time to see if this sweetness it just and act, just a well thought out plow to capture you.. Really.. isn't that what usually gets you interested in someone to start with. And then after the relationship got serious, did it fall apart and seem like you were with a stranger.
this person is a painted heart, and the paint soon fades or chips away.
now try looking at the Unpainted heart. the person that is real, not just putting on a well practiced show, one that is sincere and realistic. The one that will always be caring and honest and not just constantly on a hunt for the words that you want to hear.
almost any flower attracts bees... the common old weed, a dandelion, is always there, the hardest and harshest of weather has no affect on it,, you can tromp on it, burn it, cut it down or a million other drastic measures. But it always stays firm.. bounces right back.
but take the scent and beauty of a rode.. just how strong will it hold up? One good hail storm, flood, or even just a stiff wind and it is gone. it is so hard and so much effort to keep it healthy and alive.
my point is.. just because something looks good and sounds good. it very well may not hold up to the test, to the hard times.
What have you been overlooking? Even a mocking bird has many beautiful songs....... they are just copies and none are truly its own.
rasgumby Forum Posts (4,665)
Same here.
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