Yes. said she met a guy.. fooled around and left her husband for him.. THAT IS CALLED CHEATING!
as others have said above.. if one wants out.. then leave, then start a relationship with someone else.
Cheating is cheating.
my view don't change on it , just because who it is doing the cheating.
other than that.. the word you used... hypocrite...if the shoe fits........................... You did tell her she did nothing wrong and it was all the mens fault....You have made it clear that your Ex husband cheated,, what a dog he is and have jumped several guy here for the same, then turn around and tell a cheating woman that it was the mans fault...
It is not just directed at women..till it gets down to the last 4 lines.. all else is in general.. pertaining to both men and women...
But it is titled "bitter Women" because of so many different women over time bashing men for cheating. then turning around later and telling another woman that is was ok... it was the mans fault. it don't happen constantly,, but I have been here reading for over a year and have seen it several times.
Have you ever been cheated on or cheated yourself?
If someone has been cheated on I can obviously understand why you would be bitter! how do you feel about someone that cheats? is it really wrong to cheat? what advice would you give to a cheater or to someone being cheated on?
Why or when do you feel that it is ok to cheat ? Is it really a good enough reason to cheat just to say " I was / am in a bad relationship"?
I have heard so many on here rant about how wrong it is to cheat,, many say they were cheated on and the other person that cheated on them is so useless, piece of crap, bum, and so much worse.
crawling all over one person for cheating... then turn around days later and tell someone else that they did no wrong in cheating.
As most of you know me.. I see things in black and white, right and wrong.
so I am confused, why do you change the message / advice for each person?
I just really don't get the double standards. It is ok for A, B & C to cheat yet- it is not ok for D,E & f to cheat...
or no matter what.. it is dead wrong for a man to cheat, but it is fine for a woman to cheat as long as she can come up with a good reason???????
And either way....... it is the mans fault.. if he cheats he is scum... if she cheats it is ok because he didn't treat her right???
How is this at all the right way of looking at it?
( I am going in for surgery on my foot again today, so I may be gone for a couple of days? hope to have some replies when I do come back) ( but may be back on very late today- unsure)
Obama/ Clinton wouldn't be much of a dream team, Not for Obama...
One of the Clinton crazies might take him out, Just to make her President, If he allows her to be his VP. he will be putting himself in a very dangerous situation.
Also if he accepts Hillary.. he will also get Bill back in.. Not good.
I am also a Vet, thank God it was in peace time. and everyone knows that I DO NOT APPROVE OF THIS WAR!
However.................. I really don't care who it is..... if you join the Military, you know full well that you very well may go to war. Too many sign up just for the college cash and incentives thinking that they wont have to earn it. Or for a good retirement plan or whatever reason.
You know by the papers you sigh.. how much time you are in for... so do the damn job you signed up for.
So many say how proud they are of our soldiers, that they are fighting for our freedom and such. then the same don't blame them when they go AWOL?? WTF is that? stay on one side of the fence...
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Bitter women / altering advice?
Yes. said she met a guy.. fooled around and left her husband for him..THAT IS CALLED CHEATING!
as others have said above.. if one wants out.. then leave, then start a relationship with someone else.
Cheating is cheating.
my view don't change on it , just because who it is doing the cheating.
other than that.. the word you used... hypocrite...if the shoe fits...........................
You did tell her she did nothing wrong and it was all the mens fault....You have made it clear that your Ex husband cheated,, what a dog he is and have jumped several guy here for the same, then turn around and tell a cheating woman that it was the mans fault...