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My kids are my world and my life

None of us are born Parents,
With our fiest child, we all make a few mistakes and learn.
if given time between kids, we get better at parenting. gets easier.

But I believe one of the biggest problems today in some people having kids after kid after kid,, with only months apart.

this don't give the adult time to recoup or time to learn in between, and so many little ones all at once is way too much of a load.

My kids are my world and my life

Don't you just hate the parents that constantly yell threats at their kids,, such as.. "if you don't behave, you are going to be in big trouble" and then never do anything.

So the kids then know that there will never be follow through. They can do anything they want.
Then the parents are stupid enough to wonder why their kids won't mind

If we can take the bed time to bring kids into this world, we should be willing to give the children our time once they are here!!!

And not just to discipline them!
They need our fun time and need to be praised when they do well.
as anything else in our life.
They need the balance.
neither of either extreme.

My kids are my world and my life

Few good Mothers left!

My kids are my world and my life

Is what the parents say as they send their children off to summer school as a form of free childcare.
Not even taking the time to fix a decent breakfast before sending the tots off for the day, because the schools feed the kids Breakfast and lunch..But may I point out that it is crap food they are getting!

Others take their kids to the local Y or community center, again for free or very low monthly membership fees,
I worked in the Sturgis community center for 3 yrs and saw this daily.
Children as young as 6 dropped of and left all day, Which was never the intended use of the facility as there are no child care staff.

I have also seen many single Mothers on food stamps giving their children a bag of chips for lunch and send them out to play, never seeing these kids all day till it is time for another useless snack meal.

Actually seen one mother on food stamps take a friend grocery shopping, buy the friend $100 of food in exchange for $50 or less in cash that was then used to buy drugs or alcohol. Then she told her 12 year old son to go steal food so they could eat.. because he was too young to be prosecuted for the theft.

ARE YOU KIDS REALLY YOUR LIFE?
OR ARE THEY JUST SUSTAINING YOU.

this thread is to point out the bad ways of many so called parents.
try to make them see the light and reality.
( not an attack on the honestly GOOD parents!)

What horror stories can you share.

My kids are my world and my life

You can watch it free here

My kids are my world and my life

I have been passing it by, think I will watch it now that I know what it is about. thanks

My kids are my world and my life

What can I say?

I was an unwanted child!
Even to this day.... if I go visit my mother, she chases me around the house with a coat hanger

RE: impeach bush and cheney

LMFAO............
Attack away, I can take care of myself

RE: impeach bush and cheney

LOL...... I know, but that is the Obama thread. everybody knows where I stand there.
This thread is about ": impeach bush and cheney"

So I am staying on topic here.

we be cool. no probs. just telling my opinion, just giving the reasoning behind my thinking..

as for the Clintons.......... they can't be charged with war crimes.. the current admin can and should be.

My kids are my world and my life

and the worst is in the more developed Countries..
Go figure

My kids are my world and my life

like it said in the OP
"this thread is to point out the bad ways of many so called parents.
try to make them see the light and reality."

If this helps to get even one parent thinking and stop to sprial downward.. it is worth it.

My kids are my world and my life

Morning

Raised my son alone and hell yes it was real hard, but we made it.
but he always knew who ruled the house!

he is now 25 and we have a lot of laughs over a lot of the crap he tried to pull.

My kids are my world and my life

And thats how it should be, The kids will grow up much faster then we realize... then it is time for yourself.

Why harm the kids or teach them by poor example.

My kids are my world and my life

OK, bump..
I will give another example that we have all heard in the news.

toddler found dead in a closed, locked up car in the heat of day because parent wanted to spend time in a bar.

Susan Smith.. killed her 3 small children by driving her car into a lake leaving all 3 kids inside to die. (intentionally killing them)
Why........ Because her recently ex boyfriend didn't want kids, so she figured if she killed them, he would come back.

But till then, the kids were her life

Do we not care when we see warning signs in these people?

RE: impeach bush and cheney

Impeach is not enough!

They should be in prison.

RE: impeach bush and cheney

Think harder,
we can't change what has been, we CAN do something about the here and now and learn from the past to keep the same from happening.

Bush(wack) and Chainme are guilty of many war crimes and should be held accountable.
Along with all of those that ignored the Janiva(sp) convention.

Even the supreme court has ruled gitmo illegal and our treatment of prisoners.

So what corrective actions do you have in mind besides sit here and do nothing?
Lets hear some constructive ideas?

RE: impeach bush and cheney

Exactly!

RE: Happy Birthday Goosie.....

Ok all, lets get him tied to the whipping post... Everybody gets a turn
Time to get midevil!!

My kids are my world and my life

Seems people are afraid of the topic?????

But it is a very huge problem these days.

What other horror stories can you share?

My kids are my world and my life

Is what the parents say as they send their children off to summer school as a form of free childcare.
Not even taking the time to fix a decent breakfast before sending the tots off for the day, because the schools feed the kids Breakfast and lunch..But may I point out that it is crap food they are getting!

Others take their kids to the local Y or community center, again for free or very low monthly membership fees,
I worked in the Sturgis community center for 3 yrs and saw this daily.
Children as young as 6 dropped of and left all day, Which was never the intended use of the facility as there are no child care staff.

I have also seen many single Mothers on food stamps giving their children a bag of chips for lunch and send them out to play, never seeing these kids all day till it is time for another useless snack meal.

Actually seen one mother on food stamps take a friend grocery shopping, buy the friend $100 of food in exchange for $50 or less in cash that was then used to buy drugs or alcohol. Then she told her 12 year old son to go steal food so they could eat.. because he was too young to be prosecuted for the theft.

ARE YOU KIDS REALLY YOUR LIFE?
OR ARE THEY JUST SUSTAINING YOU.

this thread is to point out the bad ways of many so called parents.
try to make them see the light and reality.
( not an attack on the honestly GOOD parents!)

RE: Global Warming

And he still drives a hummer!! Give the man an award

RE: Wake ** up.

With that being said.. I must add,
oil is a huge problem and we do drastically need to come up with a better solution for the simple fact that this war has shown us. They have too much control over over us! Our Government knew exactly what was going to happen with the oil supply!!! theres your wake up call!!!! If you would care to remember. just before this war started we had a few ships of oil sent here from Russia to test the pricing and effects.

What little we really care to remember.

RE: Wake ** up.

Just like........ if any country attacks us, do you not think that we would cut off everything that we are sending to them or trading with them?

RE: Wake ** up.

Sorry, not buying this one any more than I am buying global warming.
Our governments have not told us the truth about why this war started, do you honestly think they are going to tell us the truth about the effects of the war?
YES, EVENTUALLY WE WILL RUN OUT OF OIL, BUT WE ARE NO WHERE NEAR THAT POINT YET.

We are at war with the oil producing region, they want it over and us out of there.
So the ration out the the oil supply, not only to hurt every country's people but also slows down the war machine.
Make all suffer till we end it.
Why do you think there was good oil supply till this war started?!

But do you honestly expect our Governments to tell us that not only are we paying for this war in lives, we are being blackmailed by oil... into ending this war by the factions we are fighting against

RE: Global Warming

This is a blog I wrote long ago.. its all bull

Global warming hype!
The government sends us to school to learn so much yet they don’t want us to remember it. Especially when they want to control or scam us.

Global warming is nothing short of lies and a way for big business to make record profits again.
Here is a great example….
Spinning a basketball on your finger,, as long as it is moving a steady speed and well balanced, it will continue to stay upright, the line from your finger to the top of the ball it its axis. This axis will pretty much stay the same. Now start adding weight to the top and bottom of the ball. the heavier it gets, the more it will wobble. Eventually when enough weight is added it will flip over spinning on its side. This is known as a change of axis.

Ok…. Now picture the ball is the earth.
As the ball, spinning with a known axis, over centuries both poles have been getting feet thicker with ice and thousands of tons heavier.. So the earth has began to wobble.
Now only 1 of 2 things can happen.
1.the earth can warm and melt off of the poles and rebalance the earth.. known as self correcting. Or
2.continue getting heavier to the point that the earth flips over on its side. Known as a change of axis! Be thankful that number 1 is what’s happening!
If #2 had happened…the oceans all are displaced due to the change of the direction of spinning.. oceans would cover all know land masses and uncover all new land masses, If this happens we have another ice age because the oceans being removed would cause new high pressure and low pressure points all over the earth surface and causing thousands if violent volcanic activities and completely blacking out the sun. Or worse yet.. the change of axis could very possibly cause the earth to jump orbit. Or in other words.. NO MORE EARTH!
this would happen so suddenly and violently that most all if not all life on earth would be destroyed. Thus creating an entirely different planet from what it is now.

So, the earth is just correcting itself! And will return to normal in time.
So why is this a problem?
The only problem here is the same old!
People have known this forever and decided to ignore it, live life without regard to it.
As the ice on the poles has gotten thicker, the Ocean water levels has slowly gotten lower and lower, exposing more land masses “islands” and receding the beaches farther.. So then people build new communities on these islands. We also keep moving houses ever closer to the beaches, building huge cities with thousands of people right on the current Ocean levels.
So,, when the earth corrects itself and melts the ice back into the oceans,, these newer islands are completely re-covered with water. And the huge ocean side cities will again be under water.. Many of thousands will die.
The right thing to do…move the people!
No easy answers!

But in time someone will assume credit for fixing what is a natural process.

RE: impeach bush and cheney

Dont quite understand why you qouted me for this comment but..............

Clintons did not endanger thousands of lives for no reason at all like Bush has.

RE: impeach bush and cheney

Chaeny and Haliburton are 100% conflict of interest, which Chaeny is former CEO of.
And haliburton has been given such a nonmilitary control of this war, as never before done.

Haliburton has made billions on this war and it is criminal how every aspect of this war has developed.

We had Sadam hung for war crimes or crimes against his people, It was even taped and released on the net.

Bush should get exactly the same!

RE: impeach bush and cheney

Save us the time and effort.
Just send them both to Iraq without bulet proof vest and let them fight in their own war!!!

Which is worse?

Remember the seven words that George Carlin said can never be used on television......... and then the extended list.................

Mongolian cluster F.

Which is worse?

Now....... don't make me use the f word on you, I know how bad your typing gets when you are excited