Bitter women / altering advice? (56)
I got cheated on once and walked out the door simple as that.
Cheating is Wrong, you can try to reason with yourself about, why, what, when at the end of the day the person who cheats is only trying to justify and excuse why they did it.
The reason they did it is simply because they can't control their willie or muffin simple as that.
If you get to the cheating stage and have the balls to do it, you sure has hell have the balls to leave the bloody realtionship before you screw around.
Cheating is Wrong, you can try to reason with yourself about, why, what, when at the end of the day the person who cheats is only trying to justify and excuse why they did it.
The reason they did it is simply because they can't control their willie or muffin simple as that.
If you get to the cheating stage and have the balls to do it, you sure has hell have the balls to leave the bloody realtionship before you screw around.
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Hhm .............. I've not seen these posts myself wherein you claim that people change their tune.
Anyways - I don't think that there are any circumstances that justify cheating.
Anyways - I don't think that there are any circumstances that justify cheating.
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Many people cheat for different reasons,just as many never would.I have known women who were worse then alot of men.Men have always got the bad rap.Of course they get caught more often.
This is a serious matter to some,others think well if not caught what's the big deal?This subject could use alot of disccusion.Let me say that there are many reasons it happens,partners fault?Only if you want to justify it that way.We need (couples) to keep communication open I think this is a reason for cheaters very often,no communication.Also other reasons too like,just cause she was sitting there at last call.
This is a serious matter to some,others think well if not caught what's the big deal?This subject could use alot of disccusion.Let me say that there are many reasons it happens,partners fault?Only if you want to justify it that way.We need (couples) to keep communication open I think this is a reason for cheaters very often,no communication.Also other reasons too like,just cause she was sitting there at last call.
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langleygirl: Hhm .............. I've not seen these posts myself wherein you claim that people change their tune.
Anyways - I don't think that there are any circumstances that justify cheating.
Anyways - I don't think that there are any circumstances that justify cheating.
You would have to read a lot of threads over a long period of time.
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sxc666: I got cheated on once and walked out the door simple as that.
Cheating is Wrong, you can try to reason with yourself about, why, what, when at the end of the day the person who cheats is only trying to justify and excuse why they did it.
The reason they did it is simply because they can't control their willie or muffin simple as that.
If you get to the cheating stage and have the balls to do it, you sure has hell have the balls to leave the bloody realtionship before you screw around.
Cheating is Wrong, you can try to reason with yourself about, why, what, when at the end of the day the person who cheats is only trying to justify and excuse why they did it.
The reason they did it is simply because they can't control their willie or muffin simple as that.
If you get to the cheating stage and have the balls to do it, you sure has hell have the balls to leave the bloody realtionship before you screw around.
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rasgumby: Have you ever been cheated on or cheated yourself?
If someone has been cheated on I can obviously understand why you would be bitter!
how do you feel about someone that cheats? is it really wrong to cheat?
what advice would you give to a cheater or to someone being cheated on?
Why or when do you feel that it is ok to cheat ?
Is it really a good enough reason to cheat just to say " I was / am in a bad relationship"?
I have heard so many on here rant about how wrong it is to cheat,, many say they were cheated on and the other person that cheated on them is so useless, piece of crap, bum, and so much worse.
crawling all over one person for cheating... then turn around days later and tell someone else that they did no wrong in cheating.
As most of you know me.. I see things in black and white, right and wrong.
so I am confused, why do you change the message / advice for each person?
I just really don't get the double standards.
It is ok for A, B & C to cheat yet- it is not ok for D,E & f to cheat...
or no matter what.. it is dead wrong for a man to cheat,
but it is fine for a woman to cheat as long as she can come up with a good reason???????
And either way....... it is the mans fault..
if he cheats he is scum... if she cheats it is ok because he didn't treat her right???
How is this at all the right way of looking at it?
( I am going in for surgery on my foot again today, so I may be gone for a couple of days? hope to have some replies when I do come back) ( but may be back on very late today- unsure)
If someone has been cheated on I can obviously understand why you would be bitter!
how do you feel about someone that cheats? is it really wrong to cheat?
what advice would you give to a cheater or to someone being cheated on?
Why or when do you feel that it is ok to cheat ?
Is it really a good enough reason to cheat just to say " I was / am in a bad relationship"?
I have heard so many on here rant about how wrong it is to cheat,, many say they were cheated on and the other person that cheated on them is so useless, piece of crap, bum, and so much worse.
crawling all over one person for cheating... then turn around days later and tell someone else that they did no wrong in cheating.
As most of you know me.. I see things in black and white, right and wrong.
so I am confused, why do you change the message / advice for each person?
I just really don't get the double standards.
It is ok for A, B & C to cheat yet- it is not ok for D,E & f to cheat...
or no matter what.. it is dead wrong for a man to cheat,
but it is fine for a woman to cheat as long as she can come up with a good reason???????
And either way....... it is the mans fault..
if he cheats he is scum... if she cheats it is ok because he didn't treat her right???
How is this at all the right way of looking at it?
( I am going in for surgery on my foot again today, so I may be gone for a couple of days? hope to have some replies when I do come back) ( but may be back on very late today- unsure)
there are many reasons for cheating even if they can explain it.. they can't justify it...
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I think cheating is wrong on both ends whether its the man or woman cheating...There are lots of excuses people make for cheating...If you cheat on someone it's because your having relationship problems & must not be happy so why not just end the relationship? That doesn't mean you don't love them but why put yourself & the other person through so much more heart ache than needed?
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There is never any good reason to cheat...if you aren't happy and have the urge to cheat...fine...end the relationship first and go do your thing....Cheating is selfish and cowardly and a nice way of destroying someone elses life so you can have something on the side because heaven forbid if you end up alone!!!!!!!!
It's all about the cheater...never about the cheated...bottom line....You will never hear me say that cheating is ok...because it's not!!!!!!!!!!!
It's all about the cheater...never about the cheated...bottom line....You will never hear me say that cheating is ok...because it's not!!!!!!!!!!!
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rasgumby: Have you ever been cheated on or cheated yourself?
If someone has been cheated on I can obviously understand why you would be bitter!
how do you feel about someone that cheats? is it really wrong to cheat?
what advice would you give to a cheater or to someone being cheated on?
Why or when do you feel that it is ok to cheat ?
Is it really a good enough reason to cheat just to say " I was / am in a bad relationship"?
I have heard so many on here rant about how wrong it is to cheat,, many say they were cheated on and the other person that cheated on them is so useless, piece of crap, bum, and so much worse.
crawling all over one person for cheating... then turn around days later and tell someone else that they did no wrong in cheating.
As most of you know me.. I see things in black and white, right and wrong.
so I am confused, why do you change the message / advice for each person?
I just really don't get the double standards.
It is ok for A, B & C to cheat yet- it is not ok for D,E & f to cheat...
or no matter what.. it is dead wrong for a man to cheat,
but it is fine for a woman to cheat as long as she can come up with a good reason???????
And either way....... it is the mans fault..
if he cheats he is scum... if she cheats it is ok because he didn't treat her right???
How is this at all the right way of looking at it?
( I am going in for surgery on my foot again today, so I may be gone for a couple of days? hope to have some replies when I do come back) ( but may be back on very late today- unsure)
So, many questions in your post. It would have been better made into at least 4 polls If someone has been cheated on I can obviously understand why you would be bitter!
how do you feel about someone that cheats? is it really wrong to cheat?
what advice would you give to a cheater or to someone being cheated on?
Why or when do you feel that it is ok to cheat ?
Is it really a good enough reason to cheat just to say " I was / am in a bad relationship"?
I have heard so many on here rant about how wrong it is to cheat,, many say they were cheated on and the other person that cheated on them is so useless, piece of crap, bum, and so much worse.
crawling all over one person for cheating... then turn around days later and tell someone else that they did no wrong in cheating.
As most of you know me.. I see things in black and white, right and wrong.
so I am confused, why do you change the message / advice for each person?
I just really don't get the double standards.
It is ok for A, B & C to cheat yet- it is not ok for D,E & f to cheat...
or no matter what.. it is dead wrong for a man to cheat,
but it is fine for a woman to cheat as long as she can come up with a good reason???????
And either way....... it is the mans fault..
if he cheats he is scum... if she cheats it is ok because he didn't treat her right???
How is this at all the right way of looking at it?
( I am going in for surgery on my foot again today, so I may be gone for a couple of days? hope to have some replies when I do come back) ( but may be back on very late today- unsure)
Think I'll just go with this answer:
"or no matter what.. it is dead wrong for a man to cheat,
but it is fine for a woman to cheat as long as she can come up with a good reason???????"
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Cheating is considered to be wrong.
But people do it anyway.
I guess anything can be rationalized if one tries hard enough
But people do it anyway.
I guess anything can be rationalized if one tries hard enough
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WTF? Who said it's okay for anyone to cheat and why is this just directed at women like it's all out fault? I don't get it, Ras.
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Zellarrone1: So, many questions in your post. It would have been better made into at least 4 polls
Think I'll just go with this answer:
"or no matter what.. it is dead wrong for a man to cheat,
but it is fine for a woman to cheat as long as she can come up with a good reason???????"
Think I'll just go with this answer:
"or no matter what.. it is dead wrong for a man to cheat,
but it is fine for a woman to cheat as long as she can come up with a good reason???????"
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Seriously. the surgery went well.
will reply when feeling better and drugs wear off.
will reply when feeling better and drugs wear off.
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rasgumby: Seriously. the surgery went well.
will reply when feeling better and drugs wear off.
will reply when feeling better and drugs wear off.
I didnt know you were having surgery Ras. But glad it went well and hope you feel better soon.
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I have tasted a few and none tasted bitter to me...
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I just checked in but I wanted to bump this thread until tomorrow. Almost 1a.m. my time.. I am interested in this one!!!!
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rasgumby: Seriously. the surgery went well.
will reply when feeling better and drugs wear off.
will reply when feeling better and drugs wear off.
Perhaps you should wait and see how you feel AFTER the drugs wear off?
My pain pills are small and white, what color are yours?
SHANTI
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Arlene101: I just checked in but I wanted to bump this thread until tomorrow. Almost 1a.m. my time.. I am interested in this one!!!!
QUICK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Come to AZ, it is only 9:00PM here..
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If someone has been cheated on I can obviously understand why you would be bitter!
how do you feel about someone that cheats? is it really wrong to cheat?
what advice would you give to a cheater or to someone being cheated on?
Why or when do you feel that it is ok to cheat ?
Is it really a good enough reason to cheat just to say " I was / am in a bad relationship"?
I have heard so many on here rant about how wrong it is to cheat,, many say they were cheated on and the other person that cheated on them is so useless, piece of crap, bum, and so much worse.
crawling all over one person for cheating... then turn around days later and tell someone else that they did no wrong in cheating.
As most of you know me.. I see things in black and white, right and wrong.
so I am confused, why do you change the message / advice for each person?
I just really don't get the double standards.
It is ok for A, B & C to cheat yet- it is not ok for D,E & f to cheat...
or no matter what.. it is dead wrong for a man to cheat,
but it is fine for a woman to cheat as long as she can come up with a good reason???????
And either way....... it is the mans fault..
if he cheats he is scum... if she cheats it is ok because he didn't treat her right???
How is this at all the right way of looking at it?
( I am going in for surgery on my foot again today, so I may be gone for a couple of days? hope to have some replies when I do come back) ( but may be back on very late today- unsure)