What do you think... to harsh? (82)
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Good for you!!!
Good for you!!!
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jbibiza: I don't know about the rest of you women over 40 but I am so fed up with twenty something guys contacting me. This one said he was interested in someone who was straight with her opinion... possibly a mistake when contacting me.
So the following was my reply... what do you think.... to harsh?Well you said you wanted someone straight in their opinions, be careful what you ask for because sometimes you get it.
Did you not read the age parameters on my profile, I'm willing to give a year or two in either direction, but you're not even close. What could we possibly have in common? I have a daughter just a few years younger then you are, I have been married, divorced, a single parent, a successful business owner and have traveled all over the world.
I am single because it is difficult to find a man who matches me in education, life experience sense of humor and maturity. I am looking for a partner not someone else to take care of and teach. Please don't insult my intelligence and that of other "older" women by thinking that because you are young we will be flattered by your attention.
Regards,
Jbibiza
So the following was my reply... what do you think.... to harsh?Well you said you wanted someone straight in their opinions, be careful what you ask for because sometimes you get it.
Did you not read the age parameters on my profile, I'm willing to give a year or two in either direction, but you're not even close. What could we possibly have in common? I have a daughter just a few years younger then you are, I have been married, divorced, a single parent, a successful business owner and have traveled all over the world.
I am single because it is difficult to find a man who matches me in education, life experience sense of humor and maturity. I am looking for a partner not someone else to take care of and teach. Please don't insult my intelligence and that of other "older" women by thinking that because you are young we will be flattered by your attention.
Regards,
Jbibiza
Possibly a little harsh, yes. Peronsally, I wouldn't have gone into such lengthy detail. I get them too and I just make it clear that there are women who ARE attracted to younger men but I am not one of them. But I think he undoubtedly got the message, which was the purpose...??
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just seeing 'too harsh?' in the title brought me running in here
no its not harsh
it was open and expanatory
ive made a few friends w/ younger guys here and other sights
ive intro'd some to girls their age
ometimes i love people sometimes they annoy me no end
but i dont think it was rude...
we all know you set the bar
for class and decorum around here JB
besides we cant help it if we're hot
and maybe we look like we have money??
no its not harsh
it was open and expanatory
ive made a few friends w/ younger guys here and other sights
ive intro'd some to girls their age
ometimes i love people sometimes they annoy me no end
but i dont think it was rude...
we all know you set the bar
for class and decorum around here JB
besides we cant help it if we're hot
and maybe we look like we have money??
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harsh !!!!!!!!!!!! lol
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mindfful: maybe we look like we have money??
I usually assume that's the biggest attraction
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You'd be a big hit in New York City, those people don't mince words either.
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jbibiza: possibly a mistake when contacting me.
Jbibiza
Jbibiza
Ummmmmmmmmmmmmm YES
I think people need to read profiles a bit more. I dont think some people do.
I don't think what you say in your profile really makes any difference to some though.
They are still going to try and get their end away, so to speak.
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oh i KNOW morgan gets those letters!
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arabella: I usually assume that's the biggest attraction
hey bella
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mindfful: just seeing 'too harsh?' in the title brought me running in here
no its not harsh
it was open and expanatory
ive made a few friends w/ younger guys here and other sights
ive intro'd some to girls their age
ometimes i love people sometimes they annoy me no end
but i dont think it was rude...
we all know you set the bar
for class and decorum around here JB
besides we cant help it if we're hot
and maybe we look like we have money??
no its not harsh
it was open and expanatory
ive made a few friends w/ younger guys here and other sights
ive intro'd some to girls their age
ometimes i love people sometimes they annoy me no end
but i dont think it was rude...
we all know you set the bar
for class and decorum around here JB
besides we cant help it if we're hot
and maybe we look like we have money??
I have a lot of young guy friends and adore them, and have had my share of younger lovers which can be great fun.... but this one was on about life partners, completing each others souls... yada, yada, yada...
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morganlee: Hi jb, not too harsh at all. I agree and am completley p****d off with it to.
Some are younger than my son and he is 23yrs! i also take it as an insult to my intelligence. Have also found when i did reply saying they were to young politely and good luck looking for someone there own age, they wrote again arguing the point or being abusive now i don't answer at all.
Some are younger than my son and he is 23yrs! i also take it as an insult to my intelligence. Have also found when i did reply saying they were to young politely and good luck looking for someone there own age, they wrote again arguing the point or being abusive now i don't answer at all.
I usually just ignore them as well, but I'm tired tonight, have a sore throat and working to many hours... he was just the icing on the cake and got torched for his trouble.
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i get these letters from all ages and fotos and locations
im pretty sure some weeks they are the same guy
w/ dif google pics
you look more wealthy than i do-
which i spose
aint sayin much
so i either look dumb or rich
or both?
im pretty sure some weeks they are the same guy
w/ dif google pics
you look more wealthy than i do-
which i spose
aint sayin much
so i either look dumb or rich
or both?
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jbibiza: I usually just ignore them as well, but I'm tired tonight, have a sore throat and working to many hours... he was just the icing on the cake and got torched for his trouble.
uuuh
im boredand its only afternoon here
was he hawt?
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mindfful: so i either look dumb or rich or both?
That's why I put up the picture of me holding a chicken
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Sorry your not feeling well , hope you feel better soon 
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jbibiza: I don't know about the rest of you women over 40 but I am so fed up with twenty something guys contacting me. This one said he was interested in someone who was straight with her opinion... possibly a mistake when contacting me.
So the following was my reply... what do you think.... to harsh?Well you said you wanted someone straight in their opinions, be careful what you ask for because sometimes you get it.
Did you not read the age parameters on my profile, I'm willing to give a year or two in either direction, but you're not even close. What could we possibly have in common? I have a daughter just a few years younger then you are, I have been married, divorced, a single parent, a successful business owner and have traveled all over the world.
I am single because it is difficult to find a man who matches me in education, life experience sense of humor and maturity. I am looking for a partner not someone else to take care of and teach. Please don't insult my intelligence and that of other "older" women by thinking that because you are young we will be flattered by your attention.
Regards,
Jbibiza
So the following was my reply... what do you think.... to harsh?Well you said you wanted someone straight in their opinions, be careful what you ask for because sometimes you get it.
Did you not read the age parameters on my profile, I'm willing to give a year or two in either direction, but you're not even close. What could we possibly have in common? I have a daughter just a few years younger then you are, I have been married, divorced, a single parent, a successful business owner and have traveled all over the world.
I am single because it is difficult to find a man who matches me in education, life experience sense of humor and maturity. I am looking for a partner not someone else to take care of and teach. Please don't insult my intelligence and that of other "older" women by thinking that because you are young we will be flattered by your attention.
Regards,
Jbibiza
Well..he wanted you to be straight with him so I don't see anything wrong with it.
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jbibiza: I have a lot of young guy friends and adore them, and have had my share of younger lovers which can be great fun.... but this one was on about life partners, completing each others souls... yada, yada, yada... Do I look desperate and wealthy???
Such mails somehow are instant " be on guard " warning to me .. or else plain disinteresting.Thing is Jb , people actually DONT read profiles and understand them or they think its anyways better to try.
And as someone very well quoted once , sometimes some men try too hard or else in ways which might not be apropriate but dont intend to really annoy or hurt us.
cant really say
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mindfful: uuuh
im bored and its only afternoon here was he hawt?
im bored and its only afternoon here was he hawt?
He had Elvis sideburns hhhmmmm a chicken??? does it work?
Thanks Morgan, feeling a bit better just by venting...
I always loved New Yorkers ooby!
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jbibiza:
Hi bella and tina
Hi bella and tina
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So the following was my reply... what do you think.... to harsh?
Well you said you wanted someone straight in their opinions, be careful what you ask for because sometimes you get it.
Did you not read the age parameters on my profile, I'm willing to give a year or two in either direction, but you're not even close. What could we possibly have in common? I have a daughter just a few years younger then you are, I have been married, divorced, a single parent, a successful business owner and have traveled all over the world.
I am single because it is difficult to find a man who matches me in education, life experience sense of humor and maturity. I am looking for a partner not someone else to take care of and teach. Please don't insult my intelligence and that of other "older" women by thinking that because you are young we will be flattered by your attention.
Regards,
Jbibiza