kidatheart Forum Posts (16,544)

RE: How did you meet?

Sorry to hear that Sol.

RE: What do u think of a woman who never smiles?

No kidding, might get the idea they're never happy.


How about you, are you smiling this morning?

RE: feed our fiends

Hey! I'm a Finn, and I won't let just anybody eat me.

RE: Speaking of Controlling and Manipulating - What Is It About Women and CATS???

Been making any chainsaw like noises lately?

RE: Thoughts on LD relationships

Yeah, me too, many many times.

I've seen the Great Plains from top to bottom, east to west all over North America, and although there are some intersting stops along the way, it can get a little monotonous.

RE: Thoughts on LD relationships

I have 477 air miles right now, not sure that would even get me to the airport.

RE: Thoughts on LD relationships

Much more scenic during the summer too, well, once you get off the prairies anyway. Everything in Canada looks the same in the winter, white.

RE: Thoughts on LD relationships

I've done that drive in just over two days before, solo, and in the winter too. Not sure I'd want to do that regularly, too much snowfall north of Superior, it slows you down when you're stuck behind a plow for half a day.

RE: Thoughts on LD relationships

Same here, more expensive to fly within Canada than it is to go almost anywhere else. May as well "date" someone from Ireland or Australia, seeing as I could see them nearly twice as often with the savings compared to someone in Toronto.

At it's extreme, Canada is 5780 miles wide, not a day trip by any means, even speeding.

RE: Thoughts on LD relationships

Hi Alison

Is it really long distance if you can drive there in a few hours?

Maybe I'm thinking of it in Canadian terms, where many have to drive hundreds of kilometers daily to get anywhere, even to go to work. To me, long distance is where you have to get on a plane, or it takes a couple days to drive there.

I've driven over 1200 and 1500 kms one way to meet someone before, I didn't mind, but i wouldn't do it daily.

RE: Ladies TGIF ,,Can we get wasted on chocolate?

Ummm, there are others reading this, just in case you were wondering.

RE: Does Honesty and trust matter in Life?

Of course they matter, more than anything else does between between two people, and every other avenue in life.

Without them, what's left?

RE: How long should take before you Skype

Oh I dunno, the last gal I chatted with on Skype disappeared shortly after, not sure why. Maybe she found me hideous, then again, maybe she fainted, bonked her head, and forgot my name.

RE: Ladies TGIF ,,Can we get wasted on chocolate?

Ummmm...

Use your imagination.

RE: How long should take before you Skype

Any time you could have spent with someone you want to spend time with, and don't, is missing out, even if it's not in person.

RE: How long should take before you Skype

No need to be shy, they're just people, they can't bite through the screen....thankfully.

I've never had any worries about chatting to anyone, but there has been the odd time I've been a little nervous, at first anyway. That goes away, and once you stop staring at the other person, the conversation generally flows quite smoothly.

Not sure why some people have a schedule they follow, as to how long before you do whatever, it seems silly to me. If you want to talk to someone, do it, whether you just met them, or you've known them for your entire life.

RE: Removing chemicals and minerals from water...solutions??

Look into a reverse osmosis filtration system. They're common here for well water which is full of minerals, and come in any flow capacity you could possibly imagine.

I've seen a few in homes in the city as well, hooked up right after the main shut off, and make enough clean water to supply large families.

RE: Thoughts on LD relationships

I almost feel bad for the hijack that's ensued on this nice lady's thread....almost.

RE: Thoughts on LD relationships

Thinking about it, it could be me that got it wrong, it may be a different lady, buut I do remember her from the forums from a while back.

100% Finn, Canadian born. I'm even a real blonde!

RE: Thoughts on LD relationships

That was another lady, Mexikanska, if I remember the name right, but I still remember her laugh very well.

jejejejejejejejeje

RE: Who finds it to be a turn on when a woman can change their own tire?

I take it you're just here for conversation and sharing recipes then.

RE: Which celebrity would u like to sleep with?

To death?


How about just half way?

RE: Thoughts on LD relationships

I'm not a Yank, I'm Canadian.


Just for that, I ain't tellin'.

RE: Thoughts on LD relationships

Not sure, I've had Skype for years, I think it's one of the best things about owning a computer.

RE: Thoughts on LD relationships

Unless one, or both of you, are willing and able to travel, and eventually move if things work out well, then it's a waste of time even trying.

I was willing, but not so sure anymore.

RE: what does it take for a realtionship to work ????

You left out three of the most important things...trust, honesty, and communication.

RE: Red or Black?

I see this isn't about lingerie.

RE: Guys, what's great about women?

What's not great about them.

RE: Maybe Its Just Me...

Yeah, no shortage of "recycled members", and I don't mean hot dogs either, although some may be all lips and a**hole.

RE: Honesty

No, probably not, I gotta be me.

It's not so much a matter of diplomacy, as it is a matter of not telling people what they want to hear, in effort to not offend their delicate sensibilities.

Usually it's best to just say it as it is.


I'll leave the BS for the stuffed shirts and politicians.