Can I just comment here without being tought of as critical?
The cuddling on the couch sounds nice at times, but guys use those words in their profiles so often that it starts to sound like an eternal $10.00 limit to what they like to spend on a date.
There are so many things to do that don't cost money and can be done somewhere other than a couch
My ex is a nice man but does not show feelings or really care about other people.
I thought he did, because we worked well together and we laughed a lot. The courtship was nice and he said he loved me.
But after a while, he got tired of trying to be connected emotionally, stopped laughing and was not thrilled with me being sad about that and wanting more.
He admitted to me later that him courting me was not his true personality.
He wanted someone to live with so he wouldn't die alone
Then I realize I'm truly lucky that I'm not dating anyone, have a nice home, good education and I can turn off the fakes, pervs and ignorant trash on the computer screen by pushing one button
RE: How do you keep him coming back for more??
He's right