I feel at peace when I am working in the fields in the sun, tilling the soil and planting, talking to my cats and watching the chickens. That is more valuable to me than those diamonds I mentioned in a previous post.
Jimmy, I agree completely. I my case, the flame of romance died and we became just friends. Romance is the glue that keeps a relationship warm and happy. Women have to have romance!
When my ex and I first met, he told me if I were with him, he would treat me like a queen. After marriage, he became the king and I became Cinderella, cleaning up after him. Beware of frogs who say kiss me.
So, it's my impression that many of us on this site get very few emails, no dates and have profiles on other sites. Guess the majority of us are just poor slobs or chopped liver (speaking only of myself, of course lol). Perhaps this is a good way to meet new friends, but not a good way to get a date or find that someone to love. What do you think?
Ah, the answer is that when YOU acted as if you were not interested, she pursued. She wanted you to pursue her even though she's not really interested in you. It was not your behavior that started this, it was her ego that was bruised due to your lack of interest?
I still vote for the bar/restaurant. Especially now that smoking is not allowed in many establishments. And, as Spring is here, there are many outdoor parts of restaurants or bars, which are pleasant and very busy on warm summer nights. And of course, the singles dance.....
No full mailbox here either lol. BUT I do think that women of my age expect the guy to make the first move. Lots of "Rules" girls still out there. Just like at a singles dance, the guy asks the girl to dance....
Does this man know that you are looking for someone who will take care of you and your children? If he does know, perhaps he doesn't want to take on that responsibility. It's OK for him to make that choice and it would be OK for you to move on and find a man who would want to fulfill your needs. If you are not sure of his position, maybe it's time to ask him.
So you were emailing back and forth, sparks were flying or at least warm fuzzies. Then you met in person. Was he/she what you expected? Did the attraction survive? Or were you surprised?
True, one can never have TOO MANY friends. Could you keep us posted on what happens when you meet in person? Actually, there's another thread topic..... ~arabella~
Physical attraction may start the conversation, but personality and mutual interests make the relationship continue. I think it's wise to start out as friends, get to know the person and then see if more develops.
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RE: What is your philosophy on life?
Always wear a smile :)