If he has decided he is an adult, let him deal with the authorities.
If he is leaving school, is he going to be getting a job, paying you rent, buying his own food, clothing, getting his own health insurance, transportation?
I've been married four times. The fourth time I said no when the man asked me, but then he said, try it and if it does work out, what's it going to hurt?
Well, it didn't work and it sure hurt his feelings when I left.
After four trys, I've decided it's an institution I don''t want to live in.......LOL
Ok, all us women (not girls) are going to line up and the man who started this thread will tell us the age range of the men each of us should be dating. I'm curious what he will say, aren't you????
Raising children is not always easy. Could be these ladies have been in other relationships and had a bad experience. Like when the child turns on you and snarls, "I don't have to do what you say. You're not my mother".
Or, they've been burned by a guy who specifically dates women to find a caretaker for his kids - woman's work - while he goes off to the office and expects to come home to find well behaved children, dinner cooked and a clean house. Don't laugh - it happened to me!
A background check....hmmmm. Did you have suspicions about this person or would you get a background check for each new potential mate? Do you think it is worth it?
I'll put my two cents in here too. Solitare, AKDO, James - love your comments. They make the forum worthwhile and show that it matters NOT what a person looks like. It's the depth of what they say that matters!
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RE: Does anyone get scared they may have found the "right" one on here
True, I may have found some men who I am attracted to, but it's a two way street.I want to be someone's "right one" and have it be no question, no "dougitis", no doubts.
Now wait, Doug has found his right one, yes???? I am confused!