Steve, it doesn't matter. A laugh means the girl is having fun, and as we all know "girls just want to have fun". And of course, the cute butt is a PLUS! :)
Patience is a virtue and we all get tired of being virtuous sometimes, don't we :) I'll send anyone a flower who wants one. Even you, mrlister, even though I probably cannot afford to keep you in the style you are accustomed to...lol!
You mean kids from previous relationships or future kids? If it's future kids, their expenses should be shared in a way agreeable to both parties. My style has always been to pay for my children's expenses and not expect a man coming into their life to start paying their bills.
Being that it's a rainy day, I've been browsing profiles on this site and others. As I look at the people who "match" me, it occurs to me that I would be interested in having them as friends, but might not feel we are a "match" in a relationship. Is it OK to contact them, even though I'm not attracted to them in a romantic way?
This is tougher to answer than I thought :) My one unique feature is my feet - I had bunion surgery and my big toes are a little shorter. And how many farmers do you know who have a Masters degree. Finally, I do think that I am an non-judgmental listener, which makes me an excellent friend.
I've always been attracted to tall, slim, rugged looking guys with a twinkle in their eyes. If they turn out to be intelligent, funny and sober they are definitely my type!
I like the idea of the lake, bread, wine and cheese, too. See ladies, these guys can be thoughtful and romantic if they want to be. And notice, it doesn't really cost much.....it's mostly the thought that counts.
I've had guys as young as 28 contact me. They must be looking for their lost mommy. And the ones that say "I'm going to visit your area this summer" - I think no, I'm not a hotel. And lots of emails with very bad spelling. I guess I am quirky because bad spelling in a message makes me less likely to write back. One thing that turns me off when I read a profile is long, sad stories about the person's previous relationship - not something I need to know right off.
I opened a fortune cookie today and it said, "You will enjoy good health; you will be surrounded by luxury". Not bad, huh? When you open your next fortune cookie, what do you hope it will say?
I've never had a relationship without flaws and I'm still looking for the love of my life. I have had passion in two relationships, but both men had addictions which came between us. I think that passion is mandatory and i refuse to have any relationship where passion is lacking or dies!
I have become rather bold (at least for me) lately and have been sending flowers to men who I find attractive through their pictures or from what they write in their profiles. I have been surprised to get nice, polite replies back, thanking me for the contact and stating what they are looking for in a mate. I find this VERY attractive in a man, even if they say they are too far away or have requirements that I do not fit. KUDOS for polite men! I think us ladies should do the same for each man who contacts us.
Humm, are we talking about size in reference to how tall or something else. Same with the strength part - can he lift heavy objects or can he go all night? This could be the start of another dangerous topic - The Famous "Size Matters" debate. Has that been discussed here? LOL
Let's say your're in a relationship. When the two of you were dating, your partner was romantic and made you feel wonderful. Now that your relationship is official, things are changing. Your partner is no longer romantic and does not reciprocate your romantic gestures. What do you do???
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RE: are they really sure what they want?
Steve, it doesn't matter. A laugh means the girl is having fun, and as we all know "girls just want to have fun". And of course, the cute butt is a PLUS! :)