There are men (and, I'm sure, women) who are lucky murder is illegal.
You're a very beautiful woman, Brokenspirit...and if that's the man that you gave yourself this name for, I hope you get over what he did to you and change your name again...your spirit doesn't seem broken to me, lady.
Lose the loser, honey. If you want to lose weight, then that's something you should work on...but only for you, and if you want it.
I'm not happy with my current weight, but right now I can't get to the gym as often as I would like either...so, I am the way I am. If a man doesn't want to be seen with me because of it, then that won't be a problem! He won't see me or be seen with me....ever.
(I would, though, hope to run into him in the future when I have lost all of it...just to watch him drool.)
The one problem with posting and emailing sometimes is the lack of voice tone. Since you can't hear the intonation the person was thinking when they wrote it, sometimes it does cause misunderstanding...here, and emailing or IMing with friends.
Yes. It's hard to like someone without doing this...how can you like someone if you don't even know them?
That's what I like about it here on forums...we do get to know each other by posting so much together about so many different things. There are a lot of wonderful people here that I'm glad I've gotten to know.
Now, if everyone could just keep it nice and not start mini wars on here occasionally it would be even better.
I stopped trying to figure out why the "bad" things happened a long time ago. It all happens for a reason...and I am satisfied at this point that I have found the reasons...and yet, I don't really need to know the reasons. I know the lessons and strength gained from the trials I've been through.
Now, my choices are to work on healing, growing, and learning. I love life in all of its happenings. Even in the trials of life there is something beautiful to be gained.
No, Luscious...what you said was very wise. And you're right...none of us have the same experiences. You should be happy with who you are, and I'm glad that you are. I was at that age too...and I'm happy with who I am now. And with how wise you are at 26, I can honestly say I think you'll be even wiser as time goes by.
Yes, it is a generalization...but just because something is generally true doesn't make it universally true. There are some very wise people in their 20's on this site who post in the forums. Just be thankful you have such wisdom at a younger age than most.
And yes, I was very wise at a young age too...but still managed to make mistakes. We all do. And I learned more and grew wiser.
Absolutely. Each decade of being has its own benefits and drawbacks. I think everyone needs to enjoy the journey regardless of where they are in it. I hope it helps the younger ones on here to know that life doesn't end at 30...we see certain birthdays as we approach them as being "the end" of our youth and beauty...and yet, they're really just milemarkers along the way.
This doesn't apply to all men, btw...there are some who are that sensual at a much younger age. The young man who should have been my first...and was in all but the final way because I was too scared...was one of the most sensual men I've ever known, and that was at the ripe old age of 18. All that I can say, is every woman who's been lucky enough to be with him since then is lucky...and wow...what must he be like now!
And not all men in their 50's have the "drawbacks" you were referring to, thereby having no choice. I know some in their 50's who can do it multiple times in one night. I think it's just that by then men have learned to appreciate the giving of pleasure as much as the getting of it. They've gotten more ready to settle in for the long haul if they haven't become cynical.
And yes, both men and women in their 40's and 50's have a beauty that shines from within, making them more attractive then they were in their 20's and 30's. To me, younger men aren't as attractive any more because their faces lack character.
I don't consider first impressions all that important. I have met people who I didn't like on first impression...then I got to see behind the mask to the wonderful people they hid to protect themselves from pain. I have also met (and married) people who gave wonderful first impressions, sometimes for months or longer...and regretted that I ever met them when I got to know who they really were.
I know the old saying goes that you never get another chance to make a first impression...but with me, you do.
How beautiful...and thank you for sharing it. I'm glad I stopped to read it on my way to bed. How wonderful a gift that man was who could make the world so beautiful for someone just by sharing his vision of it.
And that's my favorite saying, and my signature on my personal emails:
"Yesterday is history, Tomorrow is a mystery, Today is a gift, That's why it's called 'the Present'."
I'm not dead, Jenny...still very much alive. I was just enjoying some time relaxing, watching tv with my feet up and the dogs curled up with me while laundry was running.
Now, however, I'm going to be dead to the world for a little bit...nighty, nite! I have to work in the morning.
First guy I've ever known who felt that way. Most like to be held there while sleeping...at least, in my experience. Or, for their gf to stroke it to wake them up. Me...I'd rather you were awake when I start, and it's usually more comfortable for me to hold a man around his waist.
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