Yep...still going through it. He's an ex, but not, since we never really dated. Still friends, still trying to date. Can't kill the love we share, but he can't share it.
I, too, am the type to make a clean break...and yet with this one I can't. Sometimes, you just have to accept that you will always love them, and move on...and that becomes its own way of letting go and reconciling. The heart is, unfortunately, not logical.
I would have wondered why he didn't send the flower sooner if he was so interested. Seems like maybe there was someone else he got in touch with in the meantime, and then came back to you when that broke up. I don't like thinking I'm "second best"...so, I don't blame you.
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I took out the contact info...but this was my most recent one! Had to share back at ya, Pat...I loved the part about an "achievers collection"...wtf?
I agree with keeping the first date simple...going somewhere nice that you can talk to have coffee and conversation. If you're enjoying yourselves and want to keep it going, you can decide to have lunch or dinner.
Or, go somewhere fun. Do you have activities in common that you both enjoy?
I'll second that...I can't stand to feel caged in any way. I'll never cheat on a partner...but I won't be "owned" or restricted either. I have to have the freedom to remain me, and have my space when I need it. (You know..."I'm going out, and I don't know where, or when I'll return. See you then.") Most men can't handle that in my experience. I allow the same freedom in return.
You are a loyal and devoted person who is not afraid to be held accountable for a responsibility such as commitment.
You're comfortable with commitment without being too much of a stickler about it. You feel that the majority of life is just meant to be taken seriously, and you're the kind of person who can do it. You enjoy your responsibilities and handle them easily. The security that comes with commitment is appealing to you. You don't see the lighter, carefree side of life as conflicting with commitment, which is probably why you don't shy away from saying yes when the occasion calls for it. But just be careful you're not taking life too seriously. Trust your heart, and listen to your gut when a relationship feels too constricting or just right. Take time to be free and spontaneous, and don't fall into a mental or physical rut. We need variety and a bit of spice - that's part of what makes us human! Be sure to come to terms with and love yourself before attempting a commitment with anyone else - otherwise, all your good intentions may backfire. But when it feels right, you trust yourself to commit.
Yep...me to a "T"...and I make sure that I don't take life too seriously, nor get into a rut...and I've definitely come to terms with and love myself. Hmmm...no surprises there.
I was too young to remember that first glimpse of me as an individual...probably around two when I became aware of "me"...that's about the age most of us do so.
RE: AAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
I think she was playing matchmaker.