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Oct 27, 2008 7:01 PM CST Ready... Again
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
I know this is a dating site, but I go through periods when I'm not truly in a place of wanting to date, for various reason.

My breaks have often lasted for years.

At this moment, however, I'm thinking I'm finally ready to start looking again.



Does anyone else ever go through this kind of thing, other than right after a breakup?


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Oct 27, 2008 7:05 PM CST Ready... Again
mylifewithu
mylifewithumylifewithuSpringfield, Missouri USA174 Threads 23,670 Posts
Many times I have and for several years at a time too.
Although I haven't given much time between them as I did when I was raising my childeren alone.wink wine
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Oct 27, 2008 7:06 PM CST Ready... Again
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
dcj22: I know this is a dating site, but I go through periods when I'm not truly in a place of wanting to date, for various reason.

My breaks have often lasted for years.

At this moment, however, I'm thinking I'm finally ready to start looking again.
Does anyone else ever go through this kind of thing, other than right after a breakup?
wave I do for sure. I am not really looking but having a heck of a good time dating.hug teddybear bouquet thumbs up
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Oct 27, 2008 7:06 PM CST Ready... Again
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
druidess6308: I've been going through it lately in periods that are shorter than that... Days that I don't want to date 'cuz I like my life the way it is, days when I wish I were in a steady relationship because I miss having that...and days I could use just a good f*ck to get it out of my system.

I don't know if it means I'm normal, or that I'm just really messed up.

I'm glad that you feel you're in a place where you're ready to look.



I think you're pretty damn normal, sweetie! rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 27, 2008 7:06 PM CST Ready... Again
Yeah have been there for the last 10 months. No man no cry lol.
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Oct 27, 2008 7:07 PM CST Ready... Again
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
mylifewithu: Many times I have and for several years at a time too.
Although I haven't given much time between them as I did when I was raising my childeren alone.



I quit dating for years when I had Em. No time!
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Oct 27, 2008 7:07 PM CST Ready... Again
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Arlene101: I do for sure. I am not really looking but having a heck of a good time dating.


Hi Lovely Lady! At least you're out there dating! Good for you!
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Oct 27, 2008 7:08 PM CST Ready... Again
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
Dawn7z: Yeah have been there for the last 10 months. No man no cry lol.



Hi, Dawn. I'm Dana. Nice to meet you. I'm not a newby, just had a break for a few months and am back, so there are a lot of people I need to meet! Nice to meet you.

So are you ready again?
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Oct 27, 2008 7:11 PM CST Ready... Again
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
dcj22: I know this is a dating site, but I go through periods when I'm not truly in a place of wanting to date, for various reason.

My breaks have often lasted for years.

At this moment, however, I'm thinking I'm finally ready to start looking again.
Does anyone else ever go through this kind of thing, other than right after a breakup?


Yeah, I went through it quite a few times while my *now* husband and I were divorced...
((I hope that made sense confused))
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Oct 27, 2008 7:12 PM CST Ready... Again
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
dcj22: Hi Lovely Lady! At least you're out there dating! Good for you!
You have that right Dana. Nothing will keep a good woman down, for long at least. You go girl.teddybear hug
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Oct 27, 2008 7:13 PM CST Ready... Again
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
soulmateTWS: Yeah, I went through it quite a few times while my *now* husband and I were divorced...
((I hope that made sense ))



I didn't know you were married, sweetie! Congrats.

I missed so much while I was gone. mumbling
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Oct 27, 2008 7:14 PM CST Ready... Again
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
Dawn7z: Yeah have been there for the last 10 months. No man no cry lol.
Hi Dawn and welcome .handshake We all shed the tears, trust me. SShhhhhhh don't tell anyone though.laugh hug comfort
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Oct 27, 2008 7:14 PM CST Ready... Again
gentlepaws
gentlepawsgentlepawsAny town, Ontario Canada1,019 Threads 13 Polls 9,583 Posts
I'm out for the count, although if you lived close by, I'd certainly enjoy an encounter with you. A movie perhaps.
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Oct 27, 2008 7:14 PM CST Ready... Again
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
dcj22: I know this is a dating site, but I go through periods when I'm not truly in a place of wanting to date, for various reason.

My breaks have often lasted for years.

At this moment, however, I'm thinking I'm finally ready to start looking again.
Does anyone else ever go through this kind of thing, other than right after a breakup?


I once heard a woman say, "the best way to get over a man was to get under another one"..devil


uh oh






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Oct 27, 2008 7:15 PM CST Ready... Again
Arlene101
Arlene101Arlene101Cape Breton Island, Nova Scotia Canada9 Threads 3,320 Posts
soulmateTWS: Yeah, I went through it quite a few times while my *now* husband and I were divorced...
((I hope that made sense ))
It did to me and again Congratulations!hug thumbs up
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Oct 27, 2008 7:16 PM CST Ready... Again
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
dcj22: Hi, Dawn. I'm Dana. Nice to meet you. I'm not a newby, just had a break for a few months and am back, so there are a lot of people I need to meet! Nice to meet you.

So are you ready again?


Yeah............. She wanted to sit on her pity pot..tongue


rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Oct 27, 2008 7:16 PM CST Ready... Again
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
gentlepaws: I'm out for the count, although if you lived close by, I'd certainly enjoy an encounter with you. A movie perhaps.



Hello, Leo! It's so great to see you!
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Oct 27, 2008 7:17 PM CST Ready... Again
HJFinAZ
HJFinAZHJFinAZSun CIty, Arizona USA870 Threads 1 Polls 17,068 Posts
Dawn7z: Yeah have been there for the last 10 months. No man no cry lol.



sigh Just think of all those tears that you have backed up inside you..dunno
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Oct 27, 2008 7:17 PM CST Ready... Again
dcj22
dcj22dcj22Somewhere, Tennessee USA102 Threads 3 Polls 11,581 Posts
HJFinAZ: I once heard a woman say, "the best way to get over a man was to get under another one"..




And I assume you're volunteering to help? You're so kind and thoughtful that way. tongue
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Oct 27, 2008 7:20 PM CST Ready... Again
soulmateTWS
soulmateTWSsoulmateTWSHappy in, Alabama USA8 Threads 4,935 Posts
dcj22: I didn't know you were married, sweetie! Congrats.

I missed so much while I was gone.


laugh It's a long story, but my ex and I got remarried Sept. 14th....And ya know...it's one of the best things I've done...Who would've thought that all I was looking for was right in front of me...roll eyes and I didn't realize it for a while...but thank goodness I finally did!heart wings
I kinda kept things quiet for a while, but a bit after Mindful and Mickey got married, I finally let the secret out...laugh Judging from everyone's reactions, it was a bit of a shock...lol
It seems as if it's the season for weddings lately...now Joanne and Eric has gotten married also!! Wonder who's gonna be next??
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