Having kids is enough of a challenge, let alone as a single parent. I've have wondered if life would have been better or worse if I would have been married or had children when I was younger. I love kids and I think with a good partner life can be great. I just chose not to go that route and I'm not sure if I'll regret that someday. So far I don't.
I've been asked numerous times why I'm not married and why I don't have any children. I used to tell people that I just haven't met the right one yet. Truth is I simply wasn't interested. From the time I was in my late teens until fairly recently I didn't want any part of a g/f or kids. I'm still not convinced about marriage. I was much happier single and doing what I wanted to do. I was learning, working and trying to have fun. It wouldn't have been fair to date anyone knowing that it likely wouldn't last. So I just didn't. Now I find myself wondering if I'm too late for all of that. Have I been single too long to change my ways. It does get lonely at times and I think I might be able to apreciate a partner moreso than I would have even a few years ago. I don't think I've been selfish or picky because I'm unmarried and childless. I have a lot of friends tell me I'm smart for staying single. Who knows, maybe I'm just crazy.
I wouldn't mind having a Ferrari or a Lamborghini! Not that I need one but I'm a bit of a car nut. A nice '70 Muira or even an Ford Model "A" with an 800hp big block.
It's pretty rare that anyone here gets under my skin but it does happen. I usually tend to look the other way and just remember them for who they represent themselves to be. Your actions online do reflect who you are offline. If they don't then who's the real you?
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Wouldn't be any alcohol would there?
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