I am confused because Someone who would like to go out with me, we are not compatible. Someone who was not looking was writing. Someone who was writing writes to many others at the same time. But I confess I like someone but before going "out" or "in" I would like to know more about him. From a former thread I have learned the lesson and I will tell not who he is
Precisely because we have had some other esperiences that is why it is not that easy to relate and talking for myself I am not rushing any thing and the forums is a way to know about the persons.
I hope you will find whatever you are looking for meanwhile have fun!
Hello My dear Fairy! Yes he seems to be a nice person and I did think well we post about many other things why not going for the love path. He will not be alone for long. I am fine thanks going to my civic group meeting this evening and working on a proposal related to agriculture. What about you?
This message, I would love to share it because it is really charming! I did erase some parts of it for his identity to be hidden and something really personal and gave some spaces. Before you ask about the age issue I could be his aunt.
............................................... "I realize that you are far away and I'm a little youger, but I wanted to reply to your comment about my poem, "......". "Follow your heart", was your reply. I'm all about the heart thats why I'm emailing you. Tell me if you could, why are all the good ones either older, or far away. No one I know is into the same things that I am. It is very hard to relate. ................................, too bad for all the little things. Oh a new language, for you, I have. The language of love. Powerful, forgiving, compromise, knowing, learning, needing, longing, expressing, always, fulfillment, beautiful, together, hearts, everything, forever, I could go on and on but the worldly woman that you seem to be probably knows the rest(neverending) If time and distance weren't such a problem for you I would absolutely love to chat with you. Anyways thankyou for making my day. The flowers for you I'll hold in my heart If older I was we wouldn't be apart. .................................................. Thank you from my heart! The girl who is going to be with you will be the luckiest of the whole world. You both will.
It looks like you get stressed out easily and I hope I am wrong. Relax be yourself the earth keeps going around and we are not going to leave this planet, some might though.
Reduce the amount of time you read the newspapers or watch the news on TV.
Stay away from negative conversations and from negative people.
Don't hold grudges. Learn to forget and forgive. Nurturing ill feelings and grievances hurts you and causes lack of sleep.
Don't be jealous of others. Being jealous means that you have low self-esteem and consider yourself inferior to others. This again, causes lack of inner peace.
Accept what cannot be changed. This saves a lot of time, energy and worries.
Every day we face numerous inconveniences, irritations and situations that are beyond our control. If we can change them, that's fine, but this is not always possible. We must learn to put up with such things and accept them cheerfully.
Learn to be more patient and tolerant with people and events.
Don't take everything too personally. Some emotional and mental detachment is desirable. Try to view your life and other people with a little detachment and less involvement. Detachment is not indifference, lack of interest or coldness. It is the ability to think and judge impartially and logically. Don't worry if again and again you fail to manifest detachment. Just keep trying.
Let bygones be gone. Forget the past and concentrate on the present moment. There is no need to evoke unpleasant memories and immerse yourself in them.
Practice some concentration exercises. This will help you to reject unpleasant thoughts and worries that steal away your peace of mind.
Learn to practice meditation. Even a few minutes a day will make a change in your life.
Inner peace ultimately leads to external peace. By creating peace in our inner world, we bring it into the external world, affecting other people too.
Do some reasearch on the net for some hostels but sometimes the price difference of a hostel and a good hotel is not much and a hotel is safer (my daughter has stayed in some hostels and she has not been very happy about it) Friends you will meet them everywhere. If you could find family housing would be really great because you could see how people live day by day. Good luck and chech the safety recomendations for Rio de Janeiro and follow them, take care.
Take a look at this beautiful text about love and relationships by Flávio Gikovate, a psychoanalyst. Sawabona/Shikoba
“………….Every brain is unique. Our way of thinking and acting do not serve as a reference to evaluate anyone. Many times, we think that the other is our soul mate and, actually, what we did was to reinvent him/her to our taste.
Everyone should spend some time alone every now and again, to establish an inner dialogue and discover your personal force. In solitude, the individual understands that harmony and peace of the spirit can only be found inside him/her and not from the other person. To realize this, s/he becomes less critical and more understanding of differences.
The love of two whole people is more healthy. In this type of connection, there is the coziness, the pleasure of company and the respect of being loved. It is not always enough to be forgiven by another, sometimes you need to learn to forgive yourself...
SAWABONA, is a greeting used in the south of Africa that means: “I respect you, I value you, you are important to me”. In response, people say SHIKOBA which is: “Therefore, I exist for you”.
Even vegetarians can be part of this animal's killing it they use leather items like shoes,bags, purses, suitcases, brief case, etc. Life must be a balance and it has said well here before it has to do with the food chain, some animals get to be too many then it is necessary to "reduce" its population.
A question to myself: Are we humans too many? and I am not a vegetarian.
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RE: Who would you like to go out with on CS?
Thanks dear Todger same for you!