That's actually a good point. I can't remember how many conversations have taken a turn for the worse cause you can't hear someone being sarcatic or laughing at the end of a joke.
That's true. I think that may be nerves at first. There is some pressure to be the same way you are on the forum while on the phone and we do end up relying on that extra bit of time we get. The ability to delete your response if you don't like it before hitting send. Given the options, I prefer face to face. You can read facial expressions and if there is any lull in the coversation, it's not as awkward as on the ohone.
1. Being in a group of friends with a beer, some good music and knowing there are a bunch of people who would do anything for me.
2. The other is one that I haven't experienced in a while. Just sitting on a couch with a women who loves me just for me curled up in my arms. OR... being out on a night with her and catching her eye across our friends and just smiling.
I try and do a combination. You can't always be on the phone. So it's nice to be able to have a proper chat over the phone but there's also the great option of having a flirty text seesion with a girl or just tell your mates something without disturbing them. I agree with you that I'd prefer to chat but it's nice to have that moment to think about (ie filter) your answers sometimes too.
As someone who's seen more than his fair share of suicide, unfair death and (the worst) the murder of my best friend when she was just 17, I always try to help others going through a similar thing. Firstly, I'm still standing, and laughing and breathing so you know it's possible to get through this. Unfortunately, no-one deals with these things in the same way or has the same emotions so I won't even try to say I know what you're going through but I will say that I feel for you. Every day will be a battle for a while. A battle just to get up, to go on with your life and generally just go on living yourself. Anger is natural. As is pure rage and heart breaking sorrow. There is no way to bypass this and I wouldn't recommend it to you if you could. Go through the emotions. Feel everthing. Remember the good times and by all means mourn the bad. Don't feel guilty for finding yourself laughing in the future and if at all possible, find someone who can laugh and cry with. You will never be fully whole again but don't mourn what is now missing. It just means you loved her. I promise it WILL get better.
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I know YOU laughed! You haven't get a dodgy stomach 
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I'm quite happy with the narrow horizon at the moment thank YOU!!!