BOOOOOOOOORED. (not with the thread ) Having a quiet weekend to save some money and I promised the folks I'd run them out to the airport at stupid O'clock tomorrow so can't be hungover(or still drunk). G'ah.
It really is amazing the difference. WE hear "Hey, baby, you're looking great today, how about I take you out for a drink" and we really say "erm........ hi.......erm........ "
Well the last girl I met in real life and liked was what I described but everyone's different. Depends on his level of shyness. If I was telling the girl I liked what to watch out for when I was showing my interest, it would be silly jokes, gentle slagging, not TOO obvious compliments and little touches of the arm, back etc. But again. That's me. He may just look away and be embarrassed. Get a hidden camera set up and we'll all give our opinion.
If it's a girl that I'm too nervous to ask out then It'll start with what you descibed, followed by me slapping myself in the head to make me grow a pair and then just talking, chatting and joking. Asking about her day and really trying hard to remember the last conversation we had so I have something to talk about. "Hey, how'd your brother do in his driving test?", or some such drivel.
Got offered that when I had my tonsils out. Bet they'd NEVER seen someone so quick to sit up in bed and be able to swal...... ingest pills through the mouth
Say what you want to me. I take pretty much everything as a joke. Gets to the stage that I laugh when people are being serious. REALLY pisses them off.
Sorry. Didn't actually mean to bum everyone out there. It was 11 years ago this Sep so although she's always in my heart, I'm ok about it. Thanks for the wishes though. I was more trying to get across what Del said. You don't know what you may regret not doing if you died tomorrow, so do what you can today!
Right. I believe you. I think that a lot of people on this site are a bit really and it's the annominity of it all that brings out our inner devils.
I was VERY shy before. I wouldn't have wrote anything online either and I doubt most of the girls I liked knew my name. But a close friend asked once. "what are you afraid of?" If, like me, the first thing that came into your head is "what if they say no???". Ask yourself "What if they do? What will that mean to me? Will it mean the end of the world? or will it mean that I took a chance, and it didn't work out".
Telling you straight, taking chances that don't work, are a lot better than taking none. This girl died about 3 years later. It has scarred me for life but one thing I will always take with me is her advice. She didn't get to take anymore chances in her life. Why would I waste mine?
Yeah Fair enough. I thought Distance would be Galway to Dublin. Didn't really think abroad. If that's the distance and there's no money, then yeah, no way round that.
Could be! Or it could be that she was a wee moaney lass who moaned about E V E R Y T H I N G! Never mind. Long gone now and I've my eyes facing forwards not back.
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and you guys would spot a weak member of the herd in a second. Heading for safer ground. And, by thta, I mean bed.
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BOOOOOOOOORED. (not with the threadHaving a quiet weekend to save some money and I promised the folks I'd run them out to the airport at stupid O'clock tomorrow so can't be hungover(or still drunk).
G'ah.