My Chauavenism was kicked out of me by my female friends a loooong time ago. Fraid I'm a lost cause at this point. I won't make it......... Go on without me
Was up thinking about this last night and guess once I started writing, it didn't stop. Anyone else notice you're at your most honest at 3am? (When you're NOT drunk ) Don't cry though! Not what I intended.
Godsgift: I think the treating them nice thing is working a bit better at the moment so I'll stick with that.
As a 30 year old childless guy who's found himself dating a single mom, I may as well throw in my 2 cents worth.
Honestly, I used to rule out single moms when I first went on here but got chatting to one in particular and asked why would i care if she already has kids? Does that mean I suddenly don't like her anymore? I realised that my pre-conceived (no pun intended ) notions were crap and had to throw them out.
Since then. Yeah, it's hard going sometimes. I think any guy who's worth his salt will know that if you date a single mom, you won't come first. There will be cancelled dates cause of the kids sometimes, you may not get to see each other as often as you like and you have to be available for HER schedule cause it'll be coincedence if the night you're free turns out to be the same.
But when it comes down to it, what is all that? Nothing but small stuff that you can work around if the girl is special enough. That's the dating side of it. I have no experience any further into the area of meeting the kids or whatever and in that, I'll bow down to "mom(or Dad) knows best".
I guess there may be further scrutiny than usual into my morals etc because the kids will always be in her mind and she wouldn't want to introduce her kids to someone who may turn out to be an a**hole. But I've learned that this girl I'm seeing is a kind, loving mother who has a strength that only someone who will fight tooth and nail for her kids well being will have and I've found one thing to be totally different from some of my ex's. They were massively material and thought only of money. She knows that there are things more important in life (this is not generalising all Mothers or childless women. Just, fom the experience I've had)
If it doesn't work out, I'll not JUST go for single moms but won't ever rule them out again. Saying that though, hopefully it does.
Didn't even mean my own ones. A girl I know got hacked on her old Hotmail address and now here MSN has an automated system where whatever you write, it's a conversation where she asks if you're feeling frisky and offers you to go into a private room to chat and use webcams. She just got a new e-mail account and left it up for a laugh.
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