ladydancerdivine Forum Posts (256)

RE: I been given a Christmas gift...no replies needed

you will be busy, but it's all worth it when you know you're making a difference... it's really nice because without that life seems a little sad... we all have something to offer to the world and it's good to do what we should...

RE: I been given a Christmas gift...no replies needed

that's pretty cool, it's great that you'll have the opportunity to touch so many lives... it's always nice to be able to do things like that. i've been working on a lot of the county and state government people with budgetting concerns and the servics that are available for children, because i live in a forgotton area of ohio.... it keeps me busy.... i hope that it goes really well for you

what is a soul mate to you???

i think it has a lot to do with what we make of it.... and of course it must go both ways... and i'm sure that you will find your soul mate soon.

what is a soul mate to you???

you couldn't be more right

what is a soul mate to you???

just curious to see what everyone thinks a soul mate is for them?? is it someone that is just like you, understands you....
what is your ideal soul mate like and how do you picture them?


for me, well, it's someone that respects my boundaries and knows when i am uncomfortable without me saying a word, knowing my heart even if i don't tell them what i feel, who will stand beside me through thick and thin...i would be comfortable in his arms and never want to leave.

RE: Yes I think there is hope, how about you

i believe that love and hope shows up when you least expect it to do so.. life is mostly at it's worst before it ever gets better, love is out there for everyone, and i believe that a soul mate is given by god to everyone... it's only a matter of time, patience, and what we do with that relationship that truly matters.... we can have it in our hands and still lose it. the idea is to never lose it and grow with each experience that we have so that we are ready for the right one when they finally do come along.... you never know when it could happen.

anybody know astrology???

i'm not really serious, just kinda curious....wanted to have a little fun with it, i think life experiences shape who we are more than the stars in the sky and all that.... maybe a combination of the two, there are some truths to the personality in the signs... how they interact is up for debate...

definitely won't use it to make a decision.... like i said just having a little fun, need adult conversation badly today

anybody know astrology???

dun know bout that neither of us are domineering to my knowledge...and i'm not easily frustrated......and am extremely flexible........ hmmmm..... what's funny is that i've heard good and bad on this one

anybody know astrology???

what about both between april 11-18???

i know you can make anything work... just having fun with it

anybody know astrology???

what happens when you put 2 aries together????

my poem, and what it means

can anybody else relate????

RE: Are you ready, yum...

as far as online cheating you have to hope for the best.... and i've done a lot of online dating..... you have to meet the person to make them real... before that you may feel a lot, but it's still words on a page in a way

my poem, and what it means

the rose

she is a shadow
searching-
black rooms
for a rose petal
as mirrored bars
tease her
with spring's bloomed rose

a river storms her heart
as she crawls through shattered glass
and her fingers grasp
bloody thorns-
images turn to windows
as red, streaks
the image of his face
on the other side

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to me, well this is kind of my story, always working my way to my dreams, always hoping, going through so much pain and turmoil, and then just when i think i have it, there is something standing between me and what i long for...

i hope so much that i've made my way to the end of the journey... i wrote this about ten years ago, and it has still been highly relevant in my life.... until recently, i hope....

i hope to touch the man of my dreams and not the glass that stands between us.

RE: Are you ready, yum...

poetry is a true expression of the heart

RE: Are you ready, yum...

i wear my weird label with great pride and im worried about saying the wrong thing most of the time...to those i really care about

RE: Are you ready, yum...

depends on who you ask....

RE: Are you ready, yum...

ACTUALLY.... I'M A PASTOR OF SORTS

RE: Are you ready, yum...

well, i'm a licensed minister with some seriously weird ideas about things... i guess, maybe....

RE: I'm scared of childbirth!!

well, mine happened after my time limit.... man was it nasty.... was in the hospital for five days...

RE: I'm scared of childbirth!!

it took about 20 times for them to get the spinal in, and then i ended up with a spinal headache... they filling full of mt. dew and caffeine... and serious drugs... i mean serious... but, it was all worth it.. sometimes i couldn't lif my head from the surgical pain and the spinal head ache, but it's all a distant memory now... sometimes pain is a positive thing, it lets you know you're alive and that you are or have accomplished something just look at it in a positive light i guess

RE: I'm scared of childbirth!!

everything has an effect on the baby, from the air you breathe and the water you drink.... i went without pain relief until i went into surgery, i had a spinal... very difficult spinals, they couldn't get it in there in the right plac, and then i hit the narcotics... but i was almost ready to push and i didn't have meds... but i have a VERY high pain threshold for pain.

RE: I'm scared of childbirth!!

just between us, you haven't experienced it... and in the idea of steroids... SOMETIMES, (not to scare anyone) it's either that or the baby being hooked up to i.v.'s and oxygen and in the intensive care unit.... they know what they are doing with medication these days and tell you of their risks and benefits... but the most dangerous is labor inducing drugs...

but, guys shouldn't be lecturing, okay...

RE: I'm scared of childbirth!!

drugs are your friend..... i was in pre-term labor for 2 months with my last one and on bed rest... i stayed in pain for a long time... breathe calmy, distract yourself and when it's over and u se your little one it will be a distant memory... all of my babies were 3 weeks early, get steroids, atleast 2 doses... they help make the lungs mature and the baby more healthy if born early and yes, it's normal

RE: What makes me wonder...

first of all, not everyone is completely single, i am currently attached... anyways, i think the wealthy extremely attractive guys tend to work too much for my taste.... and how would you know if he's romantic, don't compare yourself to other guys. maybe you need to look for women with a little more experience, in a different place and just be yourself for awhile. even if you're completely weird, hey i'm completely weird and although it has taken a few tries i seem to be doing much better for myself all of a sudden. so, women are looking for different things, so be who you are and have a little patience, if you're romantic and passionate then be that and you will eventually find a woman who appreciates that.,

RE: what has happened

that i finally found a real gentleman and a wonderful match, QUICKLY, and i don't have to feel lonely for christmas

question, what is appropriate??

just so you know... he appreciated this thread, and it was helpful for us both...

RE: I think I'm doing the right thing

i really think that is too long of a wait... dating other people after that long is bad, and why that long of a wait in the first place, was there a really good reason... a lot can happen in ten years... do you see eachother regularly.... something just doesn't seem right... i think that you should bother know by now how you feel and what you want from eachother and with eachother.

RE: This nation is sliding backwards, read this and you will understand

people don't leave their car windows up, most of the people i know atleast leave them open some whether they are a smoker or not, and it's really not all that cold in ohio until you get up to the northern areas.... besides the point was that they tried to re-write the laws, the voters are supposed to have the power not the beauracrats.

RE: This nation is sliding backwards, read this and you will understand

i know what you are saying.... i refuse to give up though... maybe just maybe it will make a difference, we can only hope... it's hard to hope sometimes, but we can't sit back and do nothing if we don't agree with something.

question, what is appropriate??

i'm glad you never regrettd your decisions, i have regretted them... are you still married to him?