In my opinion,your friends can only make suggestions,but the final decision is yours. As for CHANGE,personally,I'M not always crazy about change ....but sometimes changes need to be made in life.
AND Change might seem painful,but a wise man once told me that...
'Change is painless,and the only pain I'll ever feel in CHANGE is in my RESISTANCE to change.'
So when I DON'T resist...and just let it happen..IT MAKES things go much smoother.
Look man..you gotta feel good about yourself..that's what's important,you gotta feel confident...not what others think,and when you do,,,a woman will sense that,and wonder what after shave you've got splashed on..ya hear?lol
..and of course saying 'no' to people is just fantastic..and couterracts the character defect of people pleasing and doing things you don't really want to do...but feel GUILTY if you don't.
I don't know about the whole being more aggresive attitude,but I THINK learning to DRAWING boundries and not accepting c.rap that people try to put on you is healthy..
Not sure about that...I believe in free will though. Part of life is making decisions,and sometimes I MAKE good ones,and sometimes not so good ones,and it's up to me to live with the consequences of a bad decision, and hopefully learn from it.
Who knows...if you care about her...let her go...you can't force anybody to be with you,and the first part of caring is letting those we care about be completely themselves without trying to change,alter,or manipulate them,and such is life..sometimes we lose people we care about.
Look....when you cut through the bulls,.hit...you can get a million opinions on what do do..keep/destroy..who knows..
you know what..heres my advice...do what your heart tells you to do..don't listen to your head..bring it down 18 f.uck'n inches...and listen to your heart.
Now..we can't just all get along..that's unrealistic. The goal is to have the best possible relationship with every human being..and sometimes...that best realtionship is one of distance..or no relationship. Thank god for that...
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What Song Are You Listening To..Part 36.
It's WORLD CUP FEVER............A SALUT TO the WARRIORS....................
OF THE WORLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLD.