I love a good clear out....i actually do it per season when it comes to material things. Thats not to assume im a minimalist either im sadly not.
But the feeling of getting rid of what does no longer serve u is very therapeutic.
Doing the same on my own beliefs and actions takes alot more time and care though and id rather have the time to mull those things over than simply deciding one day to care about his person and the next not to.
Both systems of clearing out should be done independantly of each other...lol
The hypocrisy of ur posts never cease to amaze me...even more so ur inability to see ur own hypocrisy is bafflig to me to what appears to be a bright young woman.
U do u..ill do me. Again feel free to ignore me and not yet again come searching for me....u seek me out remember??
I think personally that "taking stock" at the end of each year to assess ur life...ur behaviour ur relationships...ur life in general is far more realistic than to be expecting of urself to do it every day
Doing it everyday is like the "greeting card" answer to ur question and not the realistic one . Jmo
Evryday life gets in the way of taking the time to asess urself....who assesses their every move every day!!?? How exhausting
Power over love will never end well. Ideally there should not be a ruler in a relationship...it just sounds ridiculous.
One obviously knows how to be vulnerable in love better than the other. When i have to start thinking about having the wool pulled over my eyes or vice versa pullimg the wool over their eyes it ceases to be a relationship to me....and is just two people foolimg themselves that ehat they have is worth having.
Its actually a sad thing to witness in another couple also seeing one do all the graft and the other reaping the benefits.
Deedee123x Forum Posts (4,795)
RE: Victim Blaming
U obviously havnt seen me boogie!!Its a sight to behold