Watch how people treat a sales clerk when they don't get the refund they expected and the clerk says may I see you I.D.
Listen to a traveler at an airport check in desk when they tell the clerk they HAVE to get on the next plane and the clerk says I'm sorry sir there are no empty seats.
Take notice of how someone treats their cranky child when at the check out counter in the grocery store. Do they tell the child to shut up, do they smack it alongside the head or do they talk in a calm voice encouraging the child to listen.
When you're on a date, you and your date place your order. The waitress serves it but it's not exactly what he/she ordered. How does he/she tell the waitress he/she wants something else.
When you are at your son's baseball game you see another parent screaming at the referee because the referee said the other boy didn't touch the base therefore he is out.
I take notice when people don't say thank you when someone helped them out of a sticky situation.
Seeing people lash out at someone because things didn't go their way gives me an idea of what they are like at home with their significant other.
Larry, I worded the blooper incorrectly. I can handle a hammer. The problem is I can't find wall studs. I think they are 18' apart but I still can't find them. I've done the thing where I pound on the wall looking for different sounds and I still can't find the stud.
PASTIMES I used to make my clothes (can't afford the material anymore) I used to do a lot of knitting (carpal tunnel syndrome put a stop to it) I used to do a lot of reading (since eye surgery not doing so much)
FAVORITES Sewing Dancing Reading
BLOOPERS Anything to do with hammering nails or hooks into the wall
BIGGEST ACCOMPLISHMENT Making my sister's wedding dress
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RE: What you don't know won't hurt you
I don't agree that what you don't know wont hurt you.It certainly did hurt me. If I had known certain things about a partner I never would have trusted him when he said he loved me.
When you trust someone to the point that you don't see the red flags you make yourself vulnerable and open to hurt.