A share of my property settlement aprox $100,000+ea. A business partnership in a thriving desalination boom town, Interstate and overseas holidays every year, 2 - 3 rock concerts, stage shows a year, love, honesty, a smoke/alcohol free home, no personal debts other than a mortgage, regular night outs to the local eateries, a goal orriented guy who has the nouse to start a business from nothing and turn it into a business that can generate $70,000 profit year.
I'm having enough trouble being away from them for over 4 weeks let alone going without them for 6 months interstate. That's why the govt. has this law where you can't remove your kids from the other parents state without their permission.
The only thing deppressing me is that she has taken the kids from me. I'm fine otherwise. I understand where you're coming from, but the only thing that will make me happy is when I see my girls again. You could only imagine what it's like to have someone cause someone pain like this by restricting your kids from you like someone mentioned before weapons/pawns. It's not meant to be a chess game of court and police etc etc... The kids have rights to see there dad and mum and she should be either fined or given some punishment for doing this.
Well I'm the complete opposite of your experience and because I'm fighting to try to get my children back into my life as they were, does that make me any worse?
Very well said. Who is compatible with me? If they're my age then they should have some assets, if not what have they been doing for the last 20 years? Living it up and squandering every cent that comes into their hands or they're lazy and don't work outside of the home because they won't pay for child care. They won't be a smoker/drug user or heavy drinker/ gambler. They will be close to their friends and family so they won't rely on me alone for their own happiness. They will have at least a year 11 education or have been to courses outside school. They won't have mental health issues
Until this even gets a court date, my hands are tied. I have had my daughters with me week on week off since we split in August and now since Feb 10th, i have not seen or heard from them and it sucks big time.
What else is there to do on a Thursday night? At least you're all helping me get this BS off my chest. Waiting on a recovery order as i haven't seen my kids in 4 weeks after the black eye session and she is using this BS to keep my girls away from me. Hopefully when she cops my leagl costs and the court grant orders, she may pull her head in and let her girls grow up without her BS of. Just a bit of revenge 'cos she couldn't move up to be near her family. Well the legal system doesn't work like that.
Hey, i didn't choose for my 7 & 8yo old girls to grow up in two sepperate locations with only one parent at a time, she did that. Total BS if you ask me.
You ladies do this all day long from sun up to the wee small hours of the morning and never cop any flack about it. Too bad if you get your own BS back in your faces.
Guys can bring their kids up alone just a well if not better sometimes than women when on their own. What's your point? The point of this thread is why are you doing this and why are you still single? I think my comments in this thread spell out why I am still single.
How many women do you see getting upset about the kids and not enough time? I just don't hear or see this. I do hear about frustrated men all of the time and their ex's who run rings around them in the legal system that is so unfair.
Women usually get away with legal aid and run their ex out of $$$ with BS psychologist reports, child's reps, etc, etc... How long do they have to take to work out a fair system for shared time so the guys don't get run around by some psychotic woman enjoying a power game of I've got the kids and you haven't, na na na na na
That's why there are sites like Dad's in Distress for women who BS there way through the Family Court with acusations of anything they can think up or get advice from their fb cliche family.
I've got 6 really good friends, then with family there's really only room left for a missus and her friends/family. Don't want to spread my time too thin especially with a 7yo & 8yo every 2nd week to care for
Friends, people don't know real friends until they have to call on them, that's when you find out who your real friends are. Lots of users and abusers, mooney grubbers and penny pinchers, you name it, we have them all here in the forums. I would call them forum friends as in fb friends but certainly not friends as it takes more than an online chit chat session to be my friend. There is the answer to the forum Q of why I'm still single.
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A share of my property settlement aprox $100,000+ea. A business partnership in a thriving desalination boom town, Interstate and overseas holidays every year, 2 - 3 rock concerts, stage shows a year, love, honesty, a smoke/alcohol free home, no personal debts other than a mortgage, regular night outs to the local eateries, a goal orriented guy who has the nouse to start a business from nothing and turn it into a business that can generate $70,000 profit year.