They're just people, I have a lot of grief and bitterness towards my ex, but that's not what it's all about. It's about your kids, you aren't making up with the ex, your ex is still a big part of your kids lives and you need to acknowledge that. Kids feel your hate, your pain, why do that? Love your enemies and show your kids who is the adult by being an adult and forgiving. When we forgive, we end up not becoming victims of our own mind.
Obviously AFL is the most popular sport in the land drawing the largest crowds without the need for a state of origin match just to get some attention away from the premier code - AFL. Just look at the crowd AFL drew for the Collingwood - Carlton match- 88,180, the NRL can only dream of ever pulling a crowd like that at a state of origin or grand final.
Yes, i had my banana Billy, part of the liver cleansing diet we've both been on. Den's lost 20kg and I've lost 33kg so it beats what we used to munch on before - peanut M&M's, cherry ripes and packets of chips.
We get so bored with the same ol' beer songs playlist of 1000 songs on commercial radio. There are actually a lot of great songs out there nobody plays and we try to introduce them back into peoples lives via our program. The bosses at the station wanted to pidgeon hole us into a category, but we play every genre and don't care what happens as everybody is different. The station is a community station so it caters for all age groups, not just the 30 - 50 age group. It's not always about what we love. The best party DJ's play what their audience requests, not what they want to play.
We get so bored with the same ol' beer songs playlist of 1000 songs on commercial radio. There are actually a lot of great songs out there nobody plays and we try to introduce them back into peoples lives via our program. The bosses at the station wanted to pidgeon hole us into a category, but we play every genre and don't care what happens as everybody is different. The station is a community station so it caters for all age groups, not just the 30 - 50 age group. It's not always about what we love. The best party DJ's play what their audience requests, not what they want to play.
You want a romance theme night with requests? I'd go with The Power Of Love - Jennifer Rush, but after my break up last year, when I heard it on the radio, I used to start as it was our song. Over that now and it's still a great song.
I think Collingwood will score another flag this year, no hope of my Lions getting up with our best player recovering from a fractured face after copping a knee in the kisser.
I never want to be a part of a backstabbing cliche of online forum gossips and I don't want to start now. Maybe I've become part of a Wonthaggi centric cliche group, I don't know. All I know is if people can express their opinions as individuals without people backing them up so as to sound like a forum bully group, people will then have the chance to retort without being drowned out by the cacophany of echoing voices. ie: don't just go - I agree, I'm with you, I agree with the above. Instead, use your own words to descibe what you don't like about something and then back it up with your own logic so as to give your opinion in a more balanced type of mmanner. Bullying comes in all sorts of forms and disguises and sending emails behind peoples backs is an underhanded way of bullying someone. If you can't say anything nice, don't say anything at all.
I went to a very dark place when I read her last affadavit and the lies and BS through it made me so deppressed. I'm quite proud of myself for getting past the petty squables and selfish wants and focusing on their needs. I feel happy also knowing that they will be a big part of my life and I of theirs again like it always had been
She is happy about it asshe wanted permanent residence with the kids, she has it now. It also means any property settlements will be more than 50% for her + some child support where she wasn't getting this with the week on week off
After the psychologist saw the girls were not affraid and it was only my ex's claim, but in fact the girls were missing me so bad, there is no need for suppervised access. There are now permanent orders in place that we agreed to. My daughters told me today that they wanted to go back to the way things were week on week off where they shared both parents, but to get an agreement on this could have taken another 3-4 visits, more interviews for the kids with childs reps and a family plan etc... I didn't want the kids to have to go through anymore of this BS. They're not prizes to win, I gave up 2 nights a ft/night, no big ask. At the end of the day, maybe mum will be happy, if so the kids will be happy and be able to focus better on their schooling and not have to worry about their parents fighting over them anymore.
Okayhere goes. What an emotional day it's been. Finally catching up with my beautiful kids brought out tears from me and my kids and lots of cuddles and kisses. The psychologist warned me that going by my ex's statement about one of my daughters being affraid of me, I would have to have contact in the presence of my mum for one day a ft/night. However, after interviewing my daughter, she found out my daughter isn't affraid of me and was actually all tied up in knots and torn between her love for me and her mums wishes. I couldn't cope, I just broke down into a ball of tears that my daughter was feeling so much pain and was so bottled up inside. She then recomended interim orders for minimum contact for the kids and was going to get the ex in to talk about her recomendation, I then said, look, why bring the kids back in to do a family report and then be interviewed by the child's representatives etc, etc... and countless more hearings, let's work out perm. orders. So I talked to the Barrister and we nutted out a plan,
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RE: who else dosnt care about football ?
The Blues are still a powerhouse to reckon with, I don't see any team giving the woods a run for their money this year