I never believed a word of it mind you, but it does go to show if you have anything to say about someone, say it to them and don't say it behind their back.
I couldn't sleep last night so I went over the ex's affadavits and new one to pick out any differences and lies, I found a lot but it didn't mean anything an the end of the day. I'm so looking forward to seeing the kids, my anxiety will probably prevent me from sleeping tonight as I think of our happy times together and what we will be doing in the future.
I just hope they are able to be the kids they still are and just have some fun together. I'd hate it if they were blaming themselves for us being appart.
They usually are, I'm so stuffed after waiting around all day in a court foyer all day while the barrister did his stuff going back and forwards tryin' to get an agreement out of court.
I miss the swimming lesson Mondays mucking around with them playing Marco Polo and having competitions to see who could go the longest distance under water. If I only get them every 2nd weekend, this will be better than what I've had the last 8 weeks and although not perfect, I can't see the point of spending so much money if my own barrister believes the courts don't like shared custody these days for school aged kids.
No settlement or agreement out of court, back to court tomorrow to do some psychological tests with the kids and myself to see how I interact with them, then back into court at the end of the day where the psychologists will recomend how much time I should be allowed with the kids. It's all a load of BS, but you have to do these things just to play their games if you want to be able to see your kids. I'll be interested to see how the girls react with me and if they've been coached by mum. Hoping the psychologists see past this if they have.
Was told I'd need to go to a psychologist and be watched with the kids in my presence, maybe 2 months away. Then someone resolved while we were there and an opening came up to see them tomorrow so I'm very with joy and lots of other emotions to know I'll be seeing them tomorrow. The barrister said it is highly unlikely the court will give shared custody as the kids are school age. So it looks like she will be getting what she wants in the long run even if I fought this for the next 3 years. I'm thinking of rolling over and just letting her have full time as I'm over the BS affadavits and whatever psychological BS she is feeding the kids. I need to move on and start a new chapter in my life.
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with joy and lots of other emotions to know I'll be seeing them tomorrow.
RE: Wonthaggi Home to Billy and Norm
laid like a brick or slammed like a hammer?