Course it is, you love a good argument same as the rest of us.....and your thread and your replies to the criticism was just what everyone here needed......keep up the good work.
Sure i never said that the girls you were chatting to in pubs and clubs were all pissed. Read back what i said and you will find that i said if you don't think its right to use the seedy chat up lines and comments in pubs and clubs what makes it alright here? That was my point.
And yeah i was your age once.......was a fair bit of an a**hole back then......still can be i suppose.
But hey i'm not criticizing you, we are having a conversation and i, like almost everyone else on here, was helping you to see the error of your ways in the comments you make.
You care, don't deny it. Otherwise you wouldn't have put up the thread. Fair play to you though for sticking around to defend yourself.....not sure whether its balls or the stupidity of youth.
Seriously man what planet are you on, the women on here are exactly the same as the women in real life, just like anyone they deserve respect. Can i ask you something? Would you speak to your mother/sister/aunt/granny the way you speak to women on here? The two women you are arguing with are dead sound, no different to any women i meet on a day to day basis. I have had occassion to meet them both, both are honest, funny and respectful. I may not have always agreed with them but both were respectful and deserve to be treated with respect just like every other woman and man you meet or chat with. The women on here are someones daughter/sister and/or mother. Show some respect.
You asked for opinion, as someone earlier said accept it and say thanks. JMO
Glad to see you have learned your lesson, you were a mug in the past as many of us men (myself included) have been. She clicked her fingers and you came running.
To answer your question....being nice doesn't pay. Many women say they want a nice bloke who cares for them and knows how to treat a woman well. Some genuinely do but many out there have no interest in a nice guy. What they really want is a charmer, a guy who is a bit of a cheeky chappy and many like the appeal of a guy with a bad boy image. Strange then how they wonder why these guys flirt with other women, cheat and lie. Do women think these guys suddenly change over night just because the guy is with them. I don't think so! The person you meet for the first time is the person you will end up in a relationship. Any character traits that attract you to that person in the first place may well be the character flaws you will come to hate because the person hasn't changed in the way you want them to. Women (and men too) need to be realistic when they date, what you see when you meet someone for the first, second or even third time is what you will still see five, ten 15 months and years down the line. People only change in very subtle ways. If a guy isn't nice, romantic and caring from the start then he never will be.
Personally i thought having the opportunity to meet a decent guy like me was enough for a first date, have got flowers and or chocs on a second date. Chocs and/or flowers on a first date signals that i am desperate in my view. And also know there are a lot of women who aren't into the whole chocolate and flowers thing.....wouldn't want to risk being presumpuous.
That said I am still single and based on the responses of the women on here....think i may need to rethink my strategy.
I tried to get a rent reduction, didn't work. Couldn't even threaten to move somewhere else because the prices are all virtually the same for what i am renting.
Would be a definate no to a second date if a girl brought a friend along on the first date, it would suggest a complete lack of self confidence if a girl/woman had to bring a mate with them. Self confidence is a big turn on for me when i meet a woman.....wouldn't find bringing a mate along on a first date appealing.
If it goes into a salad it can be safely assumed i don't eat it. I would love to, Its easy to prepare, looks great when served but for me it tastes horrible.
Also tried fried seaweed once, never again. Its like eating Iodine.
I don't mean to hijack Serene's thread but i have a car problem too. I have been trying since Sunday to change the time on the clock on my Yaris, its driving (pardon the pun) me bananas. Had the manual out and everything, i just cant change it. lol
Okay the reason i put up this thread is that one day i referred to a group of females i was speaking about as 'the ladies'. One of the women in the office i work in said; "Why don't you refer to them as women and stop partonising them". I said i was not patronising them. She said that using the term 'ladies was patronising and demeaning and that i should refer to them as women'. She went on to say that she was not a girl, not a lady and was a woman. So i said to her that the last i heard 'a lady' was a term of respect, just as a gentleman was a term of respect to men. I asked her when did that change??? She never responded to that.
To me she was speaking nonsense but she got very heated about it, was i wrong on this one?
Ok this has been a hot topic of conversation in the office i work in (Female dominated).....do you prefer to be described as a lady or a woman or does it matter to you?????
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RE: OPINION
God sake get a room you two.