Stand by what you believe... not by what is popular in everyone else's eye. Stand for something or fall for everything.
If your heart tells you it's simply not the right situation, then by all means listen to it! If you ignore what you feel, you'll only end up in a bigger battle with yourself later on. This is hers to handle, not yours. It's all well & fine if you want an instant family & you're willing to jump into legal matter & all with her, but if not... let her decide how to procede on her own. Besides, getting into a new relationship is one thing... add dating a pregant woman to the equation & you have a big handful of.... well, let's just say a lot on your hands.
Feel good moment...
*sniffle...Oh the joy!
I need some snow... I'm having a moment.
HEY NC, WHERES THE BLOODY SNOW?
*snarf...
I miss snow.