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I'm Back & I Missed You All

Thank you Luis

I'm Back & I Missed You All

I'm quite sure she did

I'm Back & I Missed You All

Thank you Mike...I will do my best even if I have to step back in order to do the next right thing.

I'm Back & I Missed You All

It's good to be back

I really missed you guys

I'm Back & I Missed You All

Thank you Mike

I'm Back & I Missed You All

Yeah but you love me Besides who else could you think of that would love ya even though you pick on them on a consistent basis....Aside from my sister in that communist state

I'm Back & I Missed You All

You too Ron...Glad to see you back

I'm Back & I Missed You All

Thank you Kathleen. Yes everything is ok. Miss ya woman

I'm Back & I Missed You All

Nope

I'm Back & I Missed You All

Thank you all for the welcome backs.

Sometimes we just need time to figure out where our lives are at the present moment and we're at a fork in the road and unsure which one to take. This was where I was when I decided to leave.

I was at that fork in the road and I wasn't sure which path I was going to take, if any. I decided not to take any. I'm going to stay right where I am for the time being until I can make an informed decision. I know that getting away for a few days helped in that respect, because I didn't have a million things distracting me from looking at all of these things.

I'm just grateful and thankful that I have some very close wonderful people in my life that I can call friends.

I'm Back & I Missed You All

I just got back home from being at my Mom's for Christmas. It was definitely something that I needed. I needed to be surrounded by family and friends, and I was. Next week will be hard because I have to say goodbye to them at least for a while.

This move to Arizona is making a huge impact on my family here, but they know it's for the best. I think the best Christmas gift I got this year was spending yesterday sitting at the table with my Aunt/Godmother and just talking the day away. Her and I never had a good relationship over the years, but something has changed. I'm not sure whether it's one of us or both of us that's changed over the years, but it's definitely for the better.

Thank you to those of you that emailed, messaged and called me. For some reason though I don't believe that "Thank you" quite covers it. It meant a lot to me.

I hope you all had a very Merry Christmas.

To all

I'll miss you

We all have times in our lives when some things just don't make sense. There are also times when we hit a brick wall and can't find a way around that wall no matter how hard we try.

This is one of those times where I've hit the brick wall. The foundation that was cracked underneath me even though I've repaired it many times, it has finally crumbled.

This is part of the reason for my leaving. Just know this much...It has nothing to do with anyone here, nor anything that has happened here. I can't go into more detail than that right now. Maybe in the future, just not now.

I'll miss you

I think it's time for me to leave. Please don't ask why, I can't answer that right now if ever. I will leave my profile up for a while.

Thank you to the friends I've made here. I love yas and I'll miss you all.

Until we meet again



Cris

RE: Is there a song that makes you cry ?

Danny Boy - My grandpa used to sing that song now everytime I hear it I can't help but hear his voice.
Unchained Melody
Prayer by Lizzie West
Concrete Angel
The Little Girl

RE: HALLMARK CARDS YOU'LL NEVER SEE...

Being without you really bugs me....

Can I squash you?

The Single Life!?!?!

Yes Mike, everyone's boundaries are unique to them.

Do we differentiate the boundaries depending on the person or do we set our boundaries high or low in general?

The Single Life!?!?!

I know the feeling...I'll make you a deal, whoever finds out the answer first tells the other

RE: Private Lives....and....Public Lives

Bill Clinton's infidelity didn't get Hillary elected as the New York Senate. Hillary had the backing of George Pataki and Rudy Guiliani both of which are well respected. Why did she have their backing...Because Hillary and their wives were involved in extra curricular activities together.

The Single Life!?!?!

So what if you are in a relationship and morally and ethically it's right and you're in the relationship because you want to be. It's what you want but there one aspect that's missing. Do you stay in it or do you close the door on it?

For instance...

You need to be challenged intellectually and mentally. You have a mind that is constantly wondering about things. You question everything in the who, what, where, when, why and how. In the beginning of course with all things are fresh and new, but after a while you realize that you are no longer able to have those long conversations about life and the things in it. You are no longer challenged and you need to be in order to be "satisfied" with where the relationship is going and the foundation of it seems to be cracking and crumbling.

The Single Life!?!?!

Alex, thank you for reminding me that the canvas is mine to do with as I please. I sometimes forget how flexible the boundaries are and that with certain people or things that those boundaries sometimes are ever changing. As always I appreciate your words of wisdom.

GuitarPlayer, No you are not off base by any means. Priorities can change day by day and even moment by moment. I believe that it's part of living life to it's fullest and enjoying the moments that we have.

Angel, I think you are right. No matter what the relationship is, the couple is made up of the individuals. If we lose part of that individuality then we can lose an essential part of the couple. I love when you are brutally honest.

BlueWarrior, I know that understanding oneself and accepting who you are as an individual is a necessary part of being able to have a relationship with another person. The moral and ethical aspects of why come into the picture when we choose to get involved with another person. You're right no one should rush into a relatioship for all the wrong reasons.

The Single Life!?!?!

I posted a response to someone and it made me wonder about this...

We all make choices in life good, bad or indifferent. I've realized that I've become accustomed to being single.

I know relationships are give and take, but where do we draw the line? What are the boundaries? Are there boundaries in a relationship? Is it due to our past experiences that we make some of the choices that we do? Do we put ourselves in a holding pattern when we are trying to achieve a goal in our lives?

I guess I ask this because I guess I've gotten used to doing certain things on a daily basis and doing things spontaneously as well. I also know that I'm very head strong and independent, sometimes to a fault.

I'd really like some HONEST input here...Even if it means brutal honesty.

RE: Was it something I said?

Yes he is...You'd think since he started a fire he'd put it out too

That's great that she's going into education.

RE: Was it something I said?

I will do that...What's she majoring in?

RE: Was it something I said?

Play what?

RE: Was it something I said?

I won't be far from there. I'll be attending ASU next year. In fact I believe I'll be going there on the Tempe campus.

RE: Was it something I said?

Phoenix area...It's known as the West Valley

RE: Was it something I said?

Well I'm still in New York, but I'll be moving to Arizona at the end of the month.

RE: Was it something I said?

Thank you...It's been one of those days

RE: Was it something I said?

Hi Peggy...Call me Cris

RE: Was it something I said?

Yup tired and can't sleep...Gotta love it