Pati, You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. If we can't get together this time that I'm here, there will be many more opportunities for us to do so. I know this is a very difficult time for you right now, so we'll play things by ear. I'll be around, so give me a call at anytime day or night.
Hi everyone...I'm finally back after going through MAJOR withdrawals these last two days.
Rob met me at the airport. I refused to get in the wheelchair when I came off the plane and walked right by them The hell with the TSA!!!!!
When I got to the main concourse Rob was standing there waiting. Needless to say after the major hugging session, we walked down to get my suitcase. This is Rob now.. we were so glued together that I dropped my cell phone and some lady had to tell me. She said "I know you two are in love but I have to tell you that you dropped your phone" I did not even feel it come off. As soon as I saw her it felt like old friends who have not seen each other for a long time. The hug lasted for what seemed like 5 minutes. I am very happy now that the woman of my dreams is now here. She may be here to stay if I have anything to do with it. We will send pictures soon.....maybe.Yay! my sweet angel is here
I guess he doesn't realize that it wouldn't take very much convincing for me to move out here. I only needed a reason to come out here and I definitely have a VERY GOOD reason
Well tonight will be the last night here on CS from New York. I may pop in briefly in the morning before I leave, but I can't guarantee it. I'm heading down to the city tomorrow and staying with my cousin since he's only a half an hour from the airport. My flight leaves at 9:10am est and I'll be arriving in Phoenix at 11:30am Pacific time. Rob will be meeting me at the airport and I can't wait.
I will try and see if I can get to a computer between tomorrow and Tuesday, but I can't guarantee anything.
Hugs and Kisses to all.
Only 67 hours and 14 minutes til I land in Phoenix...WOOHOO
This is the one thing I miss about living in the city. I miss the operas, the Broadway musicals, the ballet. I used to go to them quite often. During the summers I used to go and see the New York Philharmonic when they'd be playing at one of the parks.
Wonderful memories of music and song that truly touch the soul
Well obviously someone has to take the adult role here, and it seems as though you're the only one that may be able to do that. Granted there's always 2 sides to every story and then there's the grey area in between the 2 that is the reality of the situation.
From what I read here's my 2 cents for what it's worth. The girlfriend obviously is insecure about not only her relationship with your ex, but with herself. She is in no way capable of having a relationship with anyone until she has one with herself.
Your ex needs to make a decision; either he continues to have a "relationship" with this woman and tells her to stop harrassing you, or he just stops having a "relationship/friendship" with you. He has basically put you in a precarious situation and it's neither healthy nor mature.
I'm not saying that this is the case, but some guys like the "attention" they get when they have women competing over them. I'm not saying that you're competing but in his girlfriend's mind you are.
You may have to meet with the 2 of them and be very bold and abrupt and just say; Look, the past is the past and we can't change it. Either you (the girlfriend) stop calling me all the time, or you (your ex) need to decide what's important to your life. And tell them both that you're tired of being the middle man all the time and that you aren't going to stand for it or put up with it anymore.
I hope this helps a little bit, and I'm sorry you're in this position. It's definitely not a comfortable one. I've been on your side of the fence and it's not easy, but if you are direct and to the point, no one can fault you and you're the bigger person for not allowing yourself to be walked on.
I love Arizona. I've been there several times. Of course I love it more now and would much rather be there than here, but 135 hours and 31 minutes from now I won't have to worry about that. But as I've said before I'm not counting the hours or minutes
RE: Happy Birthday To You !!!!!!!
Happy Belated Birthday ShelleyYou know where my head was yesterday
I hope you had a wonderful day