I saw the post that Lutz had made and he didn't say anything degrading. He merely stated a fact. You on the other hand did not, you stated something that was completely and totally uncalled for.
Ursula, you and I have had some very thought provoking conversations in your threads. I don't always post to all of them, but I have posted to many and read them ALL. I miss you here in the forums and your thought provoking questions and posts.
People can be and are cruel. They will start something that they have no other intetion but to hurt others. There are many people here that do genuinely care about you and have the same thought as I do; You are a beautiful, intelligent, caring and deep person. If people don't like that, then that's their problem. Don't change yourself or what you do to appease others. You are allowing their jealousy to win over.
I wish I had seen this thread sooner, but I didn't until today. Sometimes we need a break though in order to collect ourselves and our thoughts in order to see what we do want to change if anything. I for one can't wait until you're back, miss ya Urs.
As I just told Dana over in the bar...I'm kinda numb at the moment. Yesterday hit me just as hard as it did 5 years ago. I'm a little sad and out of sorts, but I'll get through it. I made the decision that I really need to go down to the city and truly settle the unsettled feelings and pain.
I'm going to reorganize my closet and dressers...Maybe that'll help make me feel a little better right now.
I guess you could say that I'm FINE (Frustrated Insecure Neurotic & Emotional)
People tend to think that lies will get them where they want to be quicker than if they tell the truth. The sad thing is, that those lies eventually catch up with you and then you start the whole process over from scratch again.
It's called "Repeating the same mistakes and expecting different results"
You can have a bad cover with a really good inside, or vice versa. Sometimes you can have an average cover with a fabulous inside. Beauty comes from within. You can have the most gorgeous super model there is (male or female) and as soon as they open their mouth they are the ugliest person you've ever met.
Speak from the heart and you can never go wrong Use the gifts you were gifted with and you show yourself to be true Lying only ends up causing more pain that can last for a lifetime Honesty may hurt sometimes but it is only for a fleeting moment One that shows their beauty within is one of the most beautiful people in the world
RE: Thinking Right Now!!!
Thank you Linda I believe we've already started on making happy memories, but I know there will be many more.