Serenity1971 Forum Posts (3,815)

What is The Art of Deception?

I would if I could

What is The Art of Deception?

Interesting analogy

I wonder then does this deception carry on into the real world? Or does it stay completely on the internet?

What Is It That....

someone does that captures your heart?

What is it that makes you decide to allow another person to have your heart?

RE: how do u control ur anger?

Move a muscle change a thought and vice versa

RE: what kind of songs puts you in the mood

Shania Twain - You've Got A Way

RE: what kind of songs puts you in the mood

Faith Hill and Tim McGraw - Let's Make Love

RE: Come out and play, tell me something about yourself!

I'm brutally honest

RE: mach is the man or what?

It's ok, everything happens for a reason. There won't be any working things out, the damage is done.

RE: mach is the man or what?

Paul, Paul, Paul...I see you haven't changed...How are you sweetie?

RE: I'M NEW HERE JUST WANTED TO SAY HI

You're most welcome Dan

RE: I'M NEW HERE JUST WANTED TO SAY HI

Welcome to the funny farm aka the CS forums. I guess you already have learned not to drink anything while opening a thread. Keyboard insurance is almost a neccessity or have a spare one around. Have fun and enjoy yourself there's a lot of great people around here.

RE: Trojans.........

I think I skipped past the gutter and went straight to the sewr with this one

RE: Seeking? ...or Supplying...

I prefer to supply it. It never has to be returned, but if it is it's a wonderful thing. Besides isn't there an old saying that "It's better to give than to receive"

RE: what word describe you best when your in love......1 word only!!!

Trusting

RE: what word describe you best when your in love......1 word only!!!

Honest

RE: what word describe you best when your in love......1 word only!!!

Dumb

RE: If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick

Oooops

That was supposed to be Live life

RE: If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick

Not that my 2 cents is probably wanted here, but...

Lve life to it's fullest with no regrets for the things you've done or not done and take things one day at a time. "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is not promised it is only a dream. Live for today because that's all we really truly have.

RE: Acceptance

Which book were you looking at Tumpa?

RE: Acceptance

I believe individual unity means that we look for the common things that link us and accept the things that we may not agree on or have in common.

In other words...We agree to disagree.

Do you change?

After seeing all the responses, I think it all comes down to one word...Expectations

If we keep are expectations low or out of the picture all together, we aren't disappointed. Accept ourselves for who we are and accept others for who they are.

RE: Acceptance

Kat...I missed you

RE: Acceptance

That's definitely not a bad thing

RE: Acceptance

Yup, you got it. Not to mention killing yourself in the process

RE: Acceptance

I love the steps too...I always here it's worse when you come in to the program for a while and go back out. "Getting drunk with a head full of AA" is what always hear

RE: Acceptance

"And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing or situation as being -unacceptable to me, and I can find no serenity until I accept that person place thing or situation as being exactly the way it is supposed to be at this moment." - The Big Book pg 449

Do you change?

This may sound kind of selfish, but...

The most important relationship is the one I have with myself. If I'm going to change it's for self improvement, not because someone else wants me to. I will compromise, but not at the expense of my values beliefs or me as a person. I don't expect a person to change in order to suit me, we either accept each other as we are or not, and if not there can be no relationship. I will however point out to the person I am in the relationship with if it's not going to work, why it's not going to work for me. I don't want someone that is going to compromise themselves for me either.

Do you change?

When you're in a relationship with someone, do you change who you are in order to make the other person happy? Do you find a way to compromise with the other person so that there's a give and take? Do you expect the other person to change in order to fit your wants or needs?

RE: precious thing

My sobriety, because it gave me my life back

RE: Pictures

Thanks TallB

Can't wait to see the new changes