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Nov 12, 2006 4:30 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
saguaro
saguarosaguaroGlendale, Arizona USA39 Threads 1,534 Posts
and had about 6 months to a year to live but you could buy yourself another 6 months if you were to go through these horrible treatments and you would feel much worse while doing them, would you buy the extra 6 months and feel awful or take the shorter trip and at least feel decent?
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Nov 12, 2006 4:34 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
lovegirl3
lovegirl3lovegirl3San Bernardino, California USA23 Threads 149 Posts
Well personally, I would probably rather go without the treatment. Of course thats not to say that you or anyone else should. Its a very personal decision that takes alot of serious thought.
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Nov 12, 2006 4:35 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
jasflint
jasflintjasflintcollins, Georgia USA50 Threads 1,085 Posts
I'd get a second opinion
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Nov 12, 2006 4:37 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
catwm
catwmcatwmSomewhere in the middle, Florida USA48 Threads 6,683 Posts
ditto
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Nov 12, 2006 4:37 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
mastic55
mastic55mastic55Long Island, New York USA167 Threads 6,859 Posts
I wouldnt know which road to take till it was time.dunno
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Nov 12, 2006 4:38 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
crystalave
crystalavecrystalaveGlasgow, Strathclyde, Scotland UK199 Posts
personally, probly w/o treatment, but my decision would have to take into consideration my son & his circumstances, etc. if i could get im to see my perspective, then that's what i'd do.
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Nov 12, 2006 4:38 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
aria_rose
aria_rosearia_rosePeninsule, New Brunswick Canada32 Threads 1,250 Posts
I would live every last minute like the last!


angel
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Nov 12, 2006 4:39 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
Katers1970
Katers1970Katers1970lonelyville, Indiana USA90 Threads 2,444 Posts
ditto on that and think maybe that doc needs an opinion and it wouldn't be pretty
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Nov 12, 2006 4:44 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
Not that my 2 cents is probably wanted here, but...

Lve life to it's fullest with no regrets for the things you've done or not done and take things one day at a time. "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is not promised it is only a dream. Live for today because that's all we really truly have.
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Nov 12, 2006 4:50 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
Serenity1971
Serenity1971Serenity1971Serenity's Island, New York USA81 Threads 2 Polls 3,815 Posts
Oooops

That was supposed to be Live life mumbling doh
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Nov 12, 2006 4:54 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
beachfarmer
beachfarmerbeachfarmerLa Jolla, USA18 Threads 3,784 Posts
ya and you're ugly too!


J/K flint...an oldie but goodie.
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Nov 12, 2006 4:56 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
SusieRR
SusieRRSusieRRnortheast, Ohio USA78 Threads 3 Polls 2,122 Posts
Did you hear about the Dr. who told the patient he only has six weeks to live. The patient didn't pay his bill and the Dr. gave him another six weeks.
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Nov 12, 2006 5:11 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
Jsobes
JsobesJsobesbridgeport, Connecticut USA7 Threads 1 Polls 187 Posts
not knowing the degree of the sickness I would say with the time left and the extra 6 months you could use some of that time to seek other help or do reaserch into prolonging the time this person has. Its like someone with kidney failure you could let it take its course or go through dialysis which is a terrible situation but the overall pic is the longer your alive the better chance of recieving a transplant.
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Nov 12, 2006 5:12 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
Not in quite that position, but did have a bout with cancer.
Did as I was told I needed to do to prolong my life. I now
have very thin hair, big deal, if it all falls out I will wear
a wig. That was several years ago and I am still here and
thanking the great Spirit for every day that I have. I of course
did have more than one opinion. I think it is a very difficult
decision and one that you need to clear your mind of all
negative thoughts and meditate. My best wishes and prayers
to the great Spirit will be for you Saguaro.hug
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Nov 12, 2006 5:14 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
fireliter
fireliterfireliterAllen Park, Michigan USA502 Threads 14 Polls 5,902 Posts
death and knowing it is upon you? I believe I would take the treatments not for myself but for those who will follow me. I've lived a real exciting and full life,the thought of maybe just maybe my demise could benefit or even possibly save lives where do I sign up... its easy to find justifable reasons not to tolerate pain and agony. I owe this worlds inhabitants a great deal so much of my accompishemtns and successes and laughter and memeories was on account of you.... yeah fr the cure forthe reseach, for the cause... plug me in for 6 months. Just allow me my sponge baths be by naughty female nurses..rolling on the floor laughing come on 6 months of agony for the sake of mankind and medicine,give me that one request atleast.grin
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Nov 12, 2006 5:17 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
WhiteAsh
WhiteAshWhiteAshTurtle Lake, Wisconsin USA7 Threads 688 Posts
I would go with the 6 extra months. Also research learn as much as you can and find other people in the same boat. 6 mo to 1 yr... can turn into a longer time. You are too young to just give up.
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Nov 12, 2006 5:27 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
spidermiss2426
spidermiss2426spidermiss2426Maxton, NC, USA16 Threads 348 Posts
I wouldn't believe him. I've never known a smart doctor in my life. Don't jump all over me for that, but its true in my eyes.

BTW-- My Mom was told a few short months after my birth that she wouldn't live to see me reach my fifth birthday, and 30 years later she is still alive and kicking,
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Nov 12, 2006 6:53 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
lvslife
lvslifelvslifemoore, USA223 Threads 2,565 Posts
Hi honey. Drs., are mostly right, but sometimes wrong. I am sure that you have had second opinions. I of course, don't know how you are feeling now. But, if I had the energy and "want to", I would live every moment that I was so afraid to do because of the dangers. Fear of the "what ifs" would no longer be in play. If this is indeed you, and you are that very sick. Please, please live your life to it's fullest and waste no time. Don't sit around missing out, if it is at all possible. Adrenalin can be very uplifting. Couldn't hurt.
Bless you, and hope is good medicine.
Kathug comfort wine
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Nov 12, 2006 7:34 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
carebear01
carebear01carebear01Mt. Dora, Florida USA48 Threads 3,918 Posts
I would get as much time as I could
get. No matter what the cost...
hug
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Nov 12, 2006 7:45 PM CST If you were told by your doctor that you were very sick
Caribbeanstyle
CaribbeanstyleCaribbeanstyleSan Juan, Puerto Rico1 Threads 379 Posts
Ill take the "awful" way. I woukd spent that time with my family and friends, and let them know each one how much I love them, and how special they were in my life, I can resist al the pain in the world just knowing that I feel loved.
angel
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