and had about 6 months to a year to live but you could buy yourself another 6 months if you were to go through these horrible treatments and you would feel much worse while doing them, would you buy the extra 6 months and feel awful or take the shorter trip and at least feel decent?
Well personally, I would probably rather go without the treatment. Of course thats not to say that you or anyone else should. Its a very personal decision that takes alot of serious thought.
personally, probly w/o treatment, but my decision would have to take into consideration my son & his circumstances, etc. if i could get im to see my perspective, then that's what i'd do.
Not that my 2 cents is probably wanted here, but...
Lve life to it's fullest with no regrets for the things you've done or not done and take things one day at a time. "Yesterday is history, tomorrow is not promised it is only a dream. Live for today because that's all we really truly have.
not knowing the degree of the sickness I would say with the time left and the extra 6 months you could use some of that time to seek other help or do reaserch into prolonging the time this person has. Its like someone with kidney failure you could let it take its course or go through dialysis which is a terrible situation but the overall pic is the longer your alive the better chance of recieving a transplant.
Not in quite that position, but did have a bout with cancer. Did as I was told I needed to do to prolong my life. I now have very thin hair, big deal, if it all falls out I will wear a wig. That was several years ago and I am still here and thanking the great Spirit for every day that I have. I of course did have more than one opinion. I think it is a very difficult decision and one that you need to clear your mind of all negative thoughts and meditate. My best wishes and prayers to the great Spirit will be for you Saguaro.
death and knowing it is upon you? I believe I would take the treatments not for myself but for those who will follow me. I've lived a real exciting and full life,the thought of maybe just maybe my demise could benefit or even possibly save lives where do I sign up... its easy to find justifable reasons not to tolerate pain and agony. I owe this worlds inhabitants a great deal so much of my accompishemtns and successes and laughter and memeories was on account of you.... yeah fr the cure forthe reseach, for the cause... plug me in for 6 months. Just allow me my sponge baths be by naughty female nurses.. come on 6 months of agony for the sake of mankind and medicine,give me that one request atleast.
I would go with the 6 extra months. Also research learn as much as you can and find other people in the same boat. 6 mo to 1 yr... can turn into a longer time. You are too young to just give up.
I wouldn't believe him. I've never known a smart doctor in my life. Don't jump all over me for that, but its true in my eyes.
BTW-- My Mom was told a few short months after my birth that she wouldn't live to see me reach my fifth birthday, and 30 years later she is still alive and kicking,
Hi honey. Drs., are mostly right, but sometimes wrong. I am sure that you have had second opinions. I of course, don't know how you are feeling now. But, if I had the energy and "want to", I would live every moment that I was so afraid to do because of the dangers. Fear of the "what ifs" would no longer be in play. If this is indeed you, and you are that very sick. Please, please live your life to it's fullest and waste no time. Don't sit around missing out, if it is at all possible. Adrenalin can be very uplifting. Couldn't hurt. Bless you, and hope is good medicine. Kat
Ill take the "awful" way. I woukd spent that time with my family and friends, and let them know each one how much I love them, and how special they were in my life, I can resist al the pain in the world just knowing that I feel loved.
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