Hi. I would disconnect the cable you have connecting your feelings and your actions. Eventually you won't know the difference. If all else fails, escape from yourself.
seen a couple at night when I awoke suddenly, on different occasions; they are either dark shadows or light forms; This musical toy my younger son had when he was an infant would go off all the time, sometimes in the middle of the night; on one occasion it did when I asked my older son to play it for him as I was busy doing the dishes. Sure enough someone heard me and turned it on, except that it hadn't been my son. Also I feel that our guardian angels protect us from dangers. On one occasion while leaving a park, I had asked my ex to cross the street and he insisted on walking further down the sidewalk before crossing; as we did, a huge branch from a tree crashed right behind us. it missed us by inches/centimeters.
Tenore, my friend, my neighbor, a few extra pounds....., ok. When you are having a difficult time in general with your daily life because of those"few extra pounds", if you are not happy with how your clothes fit, not turning heads anymore, lol
RE: a potential date
It's unnecessary as you have no idea if you will see each other again.