A little disappointed, but not threatened. Obviously she is with you,maybe you can make her a present that she will replace for this old bracelet from the ex boyfriend?
I have seen a few different ones on a couple of occasions. Some looked like a translucent light one in particular in the shape of a butterfly, while another looked like a dark shadow in the shape of a ball. On one occasion while my younger son was a baby and he was crying one evening, while I was doing the dishes, I asked my older son to turn this music toy on for the baby. When I heard the music, and the baby stopped crying, I thanked my older son for helping. Then I realized that he was still in his bedroom and the the music box/toy had somehow mysteriously turned itself on????
make sure you are right and give it some time. See how you feel. Do not force yourself to do something because you are expected to. Be true to yourself.
True love is felt, not known or quantified or qualified. If you are able to do those things you just mentioned, it is not true love. True love is out of your control, it controls you.
So what is love to you cardsfan23? And if by your definition of love you say you are in love, who is to say that it is not love? You cannot qualify something you cannot measure. You set the standard for yourself, based on your own definition of love, and ultimately even that is invalidated by powerful feelings of love that can be totally illogical and already out of your control. It's called destiny.
So what is love to you cardsfan23? And if by your definition of love you say you are in love, who is to say that it is not love? You cannot qualify something you cannot measure. You set the standard for yourself, based on your own definition of love, and ultimately even that is invalidated by powerful feelings of love that can be totally illogical and already out of your control. It's called destiny.
Abracadabra, men are visual, so perhaps with enough photographs and sincere conversation it might be possible. Never say never; take it from a former skeptic.
Jan, look at it this way, you are working your way towards a potentil relationship, backwards, from the way that we are used to. Given of course that both people are honest, you get to know the other person and then you see if you are attracted. I think it's a safer way to know someone from an emotional standpoint.
It sounds like you fell in love with someone too, and in my opinion that only happens when the things that you discuss come close to your heart, even if you don't really tell the other person how much you really identify with what they're telling you. It also happens over time that a bond is formed.
Congrats. I am happy for you and my best wishes for the future. If you've both been transparent, than I don't see why it can't be love. As a matter of fact you are more objective about your conversations because you are not distracted by their physical presence. What about when you are attracted to someone at first, and as you get to know them, you see how ugly they really are and realize that it's all absurd.
Ariesgirl, I think that an intelligent gentleman would understand that by accepting the drink and thanking him, you are showing interest, however I feel that a lady should not have to get up and go look for the man. He needs to approach you. Perhaps the man in question is used to dealing with another type of female, and that is why he's expecting that from all females. Unfortunately he has not learned to make that distinction.
I'm fascinated and curious about the unknown, and there are many things that sometimes happen in our lives, sometimes appparently coincidental, but I would like to hear other people's stories about unusual experiences, premonitions, dreams. Anyone?
There's a season and a reason for everything. If something didn't work out it's OK really. Who knows maybe you might run into something much better. Stay positive!!!
The fact that he is a little younger than you is not a problem. It might just be a funny coincidence, or irony. Try to know him better. That will indicate whether you are good for each other, and if the chemistry is great, then you might just have won the lottery. Be fearless, confident, and honest, and pray to God that he is honest with you also, this way you are building on a solid foundation. And if you are ever in doubt about something, wait, give it time. Time will tell, eventually.
John I just thought I'd mention this small irony to you about Einstein. If he was trully an atheist he had been trully contradicting himself about that all his life as he had dedicated it to the study of light.
Hi John. I could not resist becoming involved in this topic with you. I know that God exists. Personally I am past the point where I question his existence. Just because one's basic human senses haven't been witness to his presence in your own life does not mean that he isn't there. I have a suggestion for you that might help you strengthen your belief in God, because I feel that after all you do believe in him. Pray to him to illuminate you or even more specifically ask him silently in your mind for something in particular. Do it until you have your answer, but make sure that it is done in complete confidence only between you and our father. As Jesus had once instructed his disciples to pray alone in silence in a dark corner. As far as people who believe too stongly in God, as long as it it trully so, the person should be kind, generous, understanding and above all patient with others. No seed that's ever been planted has given fruit from one day to the next. It takes a really evolved human spirit the kind of understanding needed to respect life in all of its forms, including the marked and the sublime differences we find amongst ourselves.
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