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That was sooo funny. So it's physical at first, and as things develop and you trust her more you become yourself. Have you had the patience to be yourself without the physical part, and then, after knowing each other, be more intimate?
That's because the little things make relationships unique, but you might want to consider the bigger picture as well, in order to put everything into proper perspective. You wouldn't want to end up older with someone who is doing OK on the little things but is going in a very different direction than you in the things that really matter.
This question is directed at the gentlemen mostly. When you've just met someone new and are beggining to date, what type of things or qualities tell you that this is potentially your future wife as opposed to a girlfriend? Do you know at all?
Think of all the beautiful, wealthy actresses that have never known true love. Can you imagine how painful their reality must have been? Beautiful and wealthy, yet alone?
I will drink from the well of love. It is the most lasting. Outward beauty doesn't last, although it can be reflected really well if you love others as you do yourself, and wealth, although good, doesn't guarantee happiness or love.
If the secret is kept in order to avoid the other person pain, as opposed to wanting to hurt and to deceive them, then I don't consider that a bad thing. As long as the other person has your best interest at heart, and vice versa, I don't think it's necessary to say everything. I think it is a more mature approach to loving someone.
The best way to learn a new language is by practicing it with someone on a daily basis and by reading books on its grammar, which is the backbone of any language. Vocabulary alone without grammar will only enable you to understand, but be unable to speak the language. Reading books or watching interesting programs in the language also helps, because if you are curious about the program you will try to understand and to fill in the blanks. Over a period of time it becomes a part of you, and that is when you start dreaming in that language
This is one of the silliest things I've heard so far. Even if you saw some kind of result, isn't the victory sort of empty? And how long before it wears off and you have nothing and no one left? I think it's disappointing to know that. I'd rather be loved and love back the old fashioned way. If it doesn't happen naturally, then maybe it's not meant to be, for whatever reason. Why force something that in the long run will make everyone unhappy?
Take her someplace beautiful in nature where you can talk, and bring along a pinic basket? Go early in the morning if you can. I think it's more original. It also depends on what type of woman she is. If sh'e fast paced and likes city life, she'll probably be disappointed. Good luck, and let us know how it went?
It is usually a combiantion of both, but I find that my heart is my better guide. It makes fewer mistakes. If I'm feeling or not feeling something it is usually accurate.
What would we do without your advice Mark? Actually you are right, and that's why people need to take their time to get to know each other. Ultimately I look at actions, because words don't cost us anything.
There are women too that leave a lot to be desired, but, the subject right now is a different one and you haven't touched on that. I would like to know your unbiased opinion, and if you have a specific question or comment about women, I'll be glad to discuss it with you, why not, after all this is a forum.
Because they are afraid of intimacy, of being left vulnerable in front of a woman by trully being honest and themselves. It takes courage to be a good man. But I personally am not willing to settle for nothing less than what I am offering. Eventually I am likely to run into someone who is smart enough to recognize me for who I am. In the meantime lots of patience.
I am really sorry to hear that it was such a disappointment. It goes to show that communication, straightforwardness, and honesty are very important from the beginning. It saves us all time and heartaches. Actually I would like to hear all of it if there's more to this story. Where was he living?
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RE: Commitment Phobia
I ve learned to accept that actions speak louder than words and that life is way too short to waste.