courage is, to me, to do something that i know is right... also, I don’t need to be afraid to express myself if it feels right, without any fear of judgement.
it also means i am not afraid to be in touch with my emotions, or show my ignorance.... or recognize that i am stubborn !
silence...Don't you hate that? Uncomfortable silence. ....Why do we feel it's necessary to talk about bull in order to feel comfortable?
That's when you know you've found somebody really special. When you can just shut the hell up for a minute and comfortably share a silence."-Pulp Fiction
i do understand your point of view, and agree with part of your comment.
for me, we are all "imperfect", and the "courage" is to live everyday and to be what we are,. Life is not a sales pitch - “Hi,check me out” .. sometimes by defending our values we end up alone...
when i said "did not take any courage", means It takes lots of "courage/stupidity" to pretend to be someone else, because at the end of each day, we deal with that, the real "us" will show up. and sooner or later that facade will be clear to everyone.
to be our self it does not take any courage a all. thats is what we supposed to do. Be what we are.... and not copying anyone. You dont need to be an "egocentric idiot" or a "humble pretending".
"Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition...... Everything else is secondary." Steve Jobs
To love again…. …..This is the most powerful description I have ever heard….
“Love is a temporary madness, it erupts like volcanoes and then subsides. And when it subsides, you have to make a decision. You have to work out whether your roots have so entwined together that it is inconceivable that you should ever part. Because this is what love is.
Love is not breathlessness, it is not excitement, it is not the promulgation of promises of eternal passion, it is not the desire to mate every second minute of the day, it is not lying awake at night imagining that he is kissing every cranny of your body.
No, don't blush, I am telling you some truths. That is just being "in love", which any fool can do.
Love itself is what is left over when being in love has burned away, and this is both an art and a fortunate accident.” - Louis de Bernières
half serious.... the other half.. not that sure. but
First of all, we have to highlight that everyone is different ...we all want different things. so "normal" is different. is about what we want IN our lives....
Bogart_1960 Forum Posts (10,012)
join the club !!
RE: How Many Times can Someone Fall in Love?
drink to that!!