In actual fact I've been telling porkies. I hate sleeping with somebody else...it gets too friggin' hot, especially when they get all clingy and cuddly.
Nobody is judging anybody here...and I'm certainly not Krisluv. I chat to many who do or have had f*ck buddies...makes no difference to me dear. It's just something that leaves me cold...very much so.
Eh? You mean you honestly believe I should at some point become so aroused at the sight of one single blue eye to the point that I should want to poke it?
Ok, but I can't accept that age equals experience and wisdom. I'm not suggesting you are mistaken, but just that my lack of years isn't a justification in suggesting that I'll see it from a broader angle given time.
Ah, no...not quite. What we've established is basic level of morality understanding. You suggested that m**turbating is akin to being a f*ck buddy...I suggested that m**turbating within a relationship cannot be considered cheating.
And no, I wouldn't assess the moral rectitude of an ex f*ck buddy in such a harsh manner...there are those among us who choose this way of life but are also perfectly capable of forming life long bonds with a special person.
But yes, you a right when you say I wouldn't be interested in the first place.
Lovers? As in relationships that involved two people who loved eachother? Of course. If you mean lovers as in short term romances conducted on a fairly superficial level...even hedonisticly, then I would say that differs little from a f*ck buddy. So no.
Ok, so you wanted the physical part without the bull...fine.
So, question for anybody who's been in the same position: how can a person trust someone who's had f*ck buddies, to retain their self control if they've had such liasons prior to meeting someone and wanting to start a long term relationship?
Because, self control IS vital in any monogamous relationship. You won't feel madly in love all the time...you won't like them all the time. At work, you may be the object of flattery from work mates...you need self control in those circumstances. Does an ex f*ck buddy have such self control, even if they've decided to establish themselves in a commited relationship?
It's a tough one isn't it? You know, try as I might, I just couldn't in a million years...no way. I know I could never trust that person completely...or not enough to allow a healthy relationship to flourish...which is completely I suppose.
I mean, surely you gotta love somebody to wanna 'do' 'em right? That's just my feelings on the matter though...it takes all sorts.
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And I'll go back to bein' a gent. 
RE: whats your favourite thing bout sleeping with someone
Weirdo.