Hold on. At no point did I attack you personally...never. Yet, you have dished up several specious 'facts' about me Branda, and have continued to do so in your latest post. You have questioned my honesty, integrity, openness and my character. You have suggested I am a control freak and an abuser. What gives you the right to say such things on a public forum? Care to answer these points please?
From the point of view of 'playing'...not general dating site conduct. Thing is, it's something that needs clarifying because some think it's a little on the gauche side. As you can see from the variety of differing views...this is certainly the case!
I'm so sorry for you Brenda...really. To feel such feelings over inconsequential matters...and to make such accusations in response...this is not good. Just remember, nobody else see's it your way...only you. Food for thought.
Now, let's just forget about all this nastiness...I hold nothing against you. Ok?
So you behave in a petulant manner to get my attention? Me immature? Fabricating false accussations about somebody on a public forum is serious...it is almost slanderous. Did you honestly expect me to take such falsehoods and not reply?
Also, attacking your opinions. Ok...when...where? I do remember you suggesting I plaigerised someones writing for my own benefits yesterday on the 'LOVE' thread...that I do recall. Other than that, offering clarifications is not an attack...and to suggest it does is insecurity on your part. I will defend my views with rational thought based upon logic, and not emotion. But, and this is veryimportant, I will do so knowing I could very well be wrong.
So if you're basing your estimates on your own judgements, which could possibly be flawed, why make such wild accusations on a public forum?
Strange...Nath thought I looked much younger in my 'beard' shot too...but others thought I looked much older in that pic, and much younger in the other pics. Mmm.....
"I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend, to the death, your right to say it" - Voltaire.
Good conversation is based mostly on good listening, so it follows that good debates follow a similar principle. Listen, absorb, conceive...share. But it's the tone and spirit in this process of sharing that's so important. There's no room for an over-bearing, harsh attitude...grace and humility should always play a part. None of us knows a great deal...all of us can learn a thing or three from eachother.
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