Do you think some people, especially women put 'talk e-mail penpal' just to stop the blokes deluging them with interest...kinda allowing them to do the choosing?
So, on my profile, it has talk, e-mail and penpal. Now, I may consider a relationship with a special woman, but the chances are pretty slim. I ain't movin' to another country, and don't even want to travel very far in this country. Basically...I'm not looking.
So, should I choose another option? Is this an honest description of my status at the moment? And what about your choice of status...does it fully equate with what you're expectations are from this site?
It's the net...it can be soul destroying...anyone can pretend to be anything, and people sometimes loose their sense of civility. Nevermind...there's a good crew in here.
I'm moving into my new stud-palace...got to get it just right ya see. I'll have no computer for a while, so that's why I'll be away. And who knows, I may find me a Mrs Aircon during that time away!
This is good...circumstances differ from person to person of course, but yes, you are right in seeing it this way - actual social interaction is healthy and vital for us all. I did some today in fact.
But go out to a nightclub? Never...NEVER! I don't want to be surrounded by half naked women...and it's too expensive. But go out I do...going out with somebody for a drink this weekend.
I will be here for a little while longer, then no more for quite a long time. Will it be a wrench? Yes...because it's been such fun chatting to all the good peeps I've met on here...even you Jente!
But I hope that at some point I'll find my 'bit of stuff', then I'll be off for good!
Ah...that's were personal responsibility and self control over our feelings and emotions comes in I would think. Having a 'crush' on somebody is fairly superficial anyway...and no, I'm not suggesting you have, but it's perhaps a good way of illustrating the issue.
Splendid...that's a relief. Thanks girl. Hey, I didn't start this thread to justify myself...it just seemed a good opportunity to pick your brains. Hate the thought of messing around with anothers feelings...wouldn't like it myself.
I didn't put that right...you flirt with someone else? Once again, no great terms of endearment have been exchanged with the person you're writing to... Is this playing?
Ah...this is a player alright...oh dear...what a bounder. I understand a great deal more now...thanks.
Ok, so what is it when you're exchanging messages with a person daily...getting to know them and really enjoying it. Nothing heavy...no amorous terms of endearment as such, but you engage in a little flirting on the forums. Is this playing?
I see. So what sort of things would a person have to say to leave you feeling that they cared about you Karen? I agree with you by the way, I'm just interested to find out some specifics here.
Phew! Thanks...feel a bit relieved now. Ok, that makes sense.
So, in essence, we can flirt as we are all adults, but when we start to take things to a more amorous level in private with more than one person, this is playing. Is this accurate?
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You'll score girl...just you wait!Do you think some people, especially women put 'talk e-mail penpal' just to stop the blokes deluging them with interest...kinda allowing them to do the choosing?