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RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

yeah...what mylife said.

Holiday parent...

It has sometimes been difficult to try to explain to them and I am not one to bad mouth him in front of them. Although, I have at times because I am human. But as a rule, kids can figure things out on their own and I have always thought it best to let mine do just that...and as they have gotten older, (15 & 10 yrs. old) they see things for themselves and form their own opinions. But it still bothers me at times.

Your ex and their present mate...

Your ex and their present mate...

Got cha.

Your ex and their present mate...

You are more than welcome! I hope he continues to heal and you both get some much needed rest.

Holiday parent...

Can anyone explain this to me perhaps?
How can a parent walk away from their own children and not want a relationship with them? When my ex left, after 26 yrs. of marriage, that is exactly what he did with our children. He sees them maybe twice a year, if that. Rarely do they ever hear from him, etc. Holiday time seems to be the time he wants them around and/or when there is a social event at this place, cook outs, dinners, etc., making it appear to others, his peers, co-workers, etc., that he has a relationship with his children. I just simply do not understand this. Does anyone else perhaps?

RE: Against her own mom?

RE: Against her own mom?

I agree with what you have said. I learned a long time ago, that forgiveness is a Choice, not necessarily a feeling. You are a wise parent sir.

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

Feel better my friend. But I do not believe you are any of those things you mentioned.

RE: Against her own mom?

I am happy to know she is safe with you! I bet you are a great dad.

RE: Against her own mom?

Thing is...your daughter is the person that was battered. The prosecuters need her there to testify. In some states, the charges could be dropped if she does not show up.

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

Me also... Some bad stuff happening.

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

I was just thinking...he can pee over the side of his tiny boat...

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

Hi Algarion!

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

Your ex and their present mate...

Hear ya! Glad your son is home from the hospital btw...

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

Come on along we have plenty of room!

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

Now that would be kickin' if we had that icon.

Your ex and their present mate...

I was pondering a bit. Do any of you get along with, or ever have a need, to speak to your ex mates present wife/husband? If so, does it make you uncomfortable to deal with them?

I have occasion to speak to my ex's present wife and it can be quite comical at times. Especially when it comes up about some of his weirdness that he still has about things.

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

Come on neighbor...the sea calls....

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

I wish I was on a boat...in the middle of the sea....

RE: Players!!!

I agree. It seems to have worked much better back in the day.

RE: Players!!!

Excellent scribe my friend!

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

Hello there neighbor!! Where might the Lovebirds be today...Joy and Ramone?

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

Nice place btw Dawn.

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

Hi Karen.... I hope you are having a better day today.

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

Hey...Dont forget me.....Its strange out there damit...

RE: Players!!!

Very good advice mystic.