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RE: Go Git Yer Momma!

Just Because...

Just because no one has been fortunate enough to realize what a gold mine you are, doesn't mean you shine any less.

Just because no one has been smart enough to figure out that you can't be topped, doesn't stop you from being the best.

Just because no one has come along to share your life, doesn't mean that day isn't coming.

Just because no one has made this race worthwhile, doesn't give you permission to stop running.

Just because no one has realized how much of an awesome woman/man you are, doesn't mean they can affect your femininity/masculinity.

Just because no has shown up who can love you on your level, doesn't mean you have to sink to theirs.

Just because you deserve the very best there is, doesn't mean that life is always fair.

Just because God is still preparing your king/queen, doesn't mean that you're not already a King/Queen.

Just because your situation doesn't seem to be progressing right now, doesn't mean you need to change a thing.

Keep shining, keep running, keep hoping and keep praying. Keep being exactly what you are already. COMPLETE.







T.D. Jakes

A conversation...Gender friendly ;)

In a brief conversation, between a man/woman,
this question was posed:

"What kind of a woman/man are you looking for?"

The 2 sat quietly for a moment before looking each other in the eye and asking.
"Do you really want to know?"

Reluctantly, he/she said, "Yes."
She/he began to expound...

"As a man/woman in this day and age,
I'm in a position to ask a man/woman what he/she can do for me that I can't do for myself.
I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any 'earthly' man/woman.


I'm in the position to ask, "What can you bring to the table?"

The man/woman looked at each other.
Clearly, he/she thought that he/she was referring to money.

She/he quickly corrected his/her thought and stated,
"I'm not referring to money. I need something more."
"I need a man/woman who is striving for perfection in every aspect of life."

He/she sat back in their chair, folded his/her arms, and asked her/him to explain.

She/he said, "I'm looking for someone who is striving for perfection mentally....
because I need conversation and mental stimulation.
I don't need a simple-minded man/woman."

"I'm looking for someone who is striving for perfection spiritually...

because I don't need to be unequally yoked...
believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.

I need a man/woman who is striving for perfection financially...
because I do not need a financial burden.
I'm looking for someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman/man,
but strong enough to keep me grounded.

I'm looking for someone who I can respect.
In order to be submissive, I must respect him/her.
I cannot be submissive to a man/woman who is not taking care of his/her business.
I have no problem being submissive...he/she just has to be worthy.
God made woman to be a helpmate for man.
I can't help a man if he can't help himself."

When she/he finished her/his spill, she/he looked at him/her.

He/she sat there with a puzzled look on his/her face.
He/she said, "You're asking a lot."
She/he replied, "I'm worth a lot."

RE: Are you the one?

I feel you on this. Beautiful scribe, Daniel.

Lovers and Friends...

Can you really go from an ongoing intimate relationship with someone, to one of just being Friends? I have pondered and pondered this. I think perhaps men can do this easier than women...Tell me your thoughts and/or experiences with this.

RE: sometimes.........

That makes sense...thank you.

RE: WILL YOU GET MARRIED?????

I just really do not know at this point in my life. Would have to be one heck of a man...

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

As it should be ....

RE: I'm Back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hi Red!!! Where ya been?? Hope things are fine in your world!!!

RE: I'm Back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WooHoo!!!! Good for you....Welcome back!!!

RE: sometimes.........

"The more your hearts been broke, the faster it heals"... ???

RE: sometimes.........

Thank you, Ice. I really needed that today.....

RE: COMING HOME TO YOU

Not always easy to move forward...

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

Hello son...Are you behaving for your Joy?? Such a fine young man. I am sooo proud of you!!!

RE: I WISH YOU GUYS WOULD HAVE PITY ON ME

Good Morning, Ms. Judy!!

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

I am back!

RE: some new pics. from the sky.

Hey...great pics! Thanks for posting.....

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

Hi Karen!!

RE: HELTER SHELTER 18 DAWNS SUNDAY NIGHT HIDEOUT:)

Good Morning everyone!!! Taking my son to school and then back...not working today....

RE: SHOULD I CALL HER

Ohhh..... well you made up a good one!

RE: SHOULD I CALL HER

He shall return,...Prolly just had to pee pee...

RE: SHOULD I CALL HER

Thank you....thats it.....

RE: SHOULD I CALL HER

I told you earlier today..somewhere on here.. that I was aged.....

RE: SHOULD I CALL HER

RE: SHOULD I CALL HER

RE: SHOULD I CALL HER

wasn't that the name of a show some time ago?

RE: SHOULD I CALL HER

Since she called you and left you a message, I think it would be fine for you to return her call.

RE: SHOULD I CALL HER

I think you should call her.