This may shock some people but I find that a turn off as well. Maybe its the age group here but this site is just the right mix of maturity (and some naughtiness).
This is how parties used to go for me. No one liked me or wanted anything to do with me so I wound up just like this guy, standing alone watching everyone else having fun.
RE: CATS! CATS! CATS!
They catch lots of mice and birds on their own, have fish catfood lots of times and the house is full of shiny sparkly things :)They still want more though