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Dec 6, 2015 10:25 PM CST Just Got Reminded of something
This is how parties used to go for me. No one liked me or wanted anything to do with me so I wound up just like this guy, standing alone watching everyone else having fun.

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Dec 6, 2015 10:27 PM CST Just Got Reminded of something
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Track16: This is how parties used to go for me. No one liked me or wanted anything to do with me so I wound up just like this guy, standing alone watching everyone else having fun.


Believe it or not, it was the same for me too D. I was never comfortable at parties or social gatherings especially if I didn't know many people...a loner of sorts. hug
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Dec 6, 2015 10:36 PM CST Just Got Reminded of something
2intrigued: Believe it or not, it was the same for me too D. I was never comfortable at parties or social gatherings especially if I didn't know many people...a loner of sorts.


I left more parties early because of this than I can remember.
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Dec 6, 2015 10:43 PM CST Just Got Reminded of something
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Track16: I left more parties early because of this than I can remember.


But the good thing is you persevered whereas I simply stopped going to them. help Thing is, parties are not the end all, be all D...you can have fun doing the things you enjoy most. hug
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Dec 6, 2015 10:59 PM CST Just Got Reminded of something
Cocheta
CochetaCochetaunknown, Western Cape South Africa1 Threads 2,021 Posts
2intrigued: But the good thing is you persevered whereas I simply stopped going to them. Thing is, parties are not the end all, be all D...you can have fun doing the things you enjoy most.


Join the club! Hey, let's start a Loner Club and call it "Loners have more fun" laugh I'm a self confessed people watcher and have more fun than the wild ones. I would rather be remembered as the quiet, wall flower. Just love the morning after when I receive a phone call and a small voice wants to know if their behaviour was really that bad. Of course I exaggerate just to make them worry for a while giggle
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Dec 6, 2015 11:05 PM CST Just Got Reminded of something
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
Cocheta: Join the club! Hey, let's start a Loner Club and call it "Loners have more fun" I'm a self confessed people watcher and have more fun than the wild ones. I would rather be remembered as the quiet, wall flower. Just love the morning after when I receive a phone call and a small voice wants to know if their behaviour was really that bad. Of course I exaggerate just to make them worry for a while


Sounds like a good plan to me and we'd all fit in. yay laugh
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Dec 6, 2015 11:49 PM CST Just Got Reminded of something
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,701 Posts
Cocheta: Join the club! Hey, let's start a Loner Club and call it "Loners have more fun" I'm a self confessed people watcher and have more fun than the wild ones. I would rather be remembered as the quiet, wall flower. Just love the morning after when I receive a phone call and a small voice wants to know if their behaviour was really that bad. Of course I exaggerate just to make them worry for a while


smile



Ladies.. gnite


wine


Who's to say I can't do everything. Well I can try, and as I roll along I begin to find things aren't always just what they seem.. -Jack Johnson. Upside Down from his 'Songs & Lullabyes Curious George Soundtrack' album. rose in teeth
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Dec 6, 2015 11:54 PM CST Just Got Reminded of something
Cocheta
CochetaCochetaunknown, Western Cape South Africa1 Threads 2,021 Posts
bohemianjack: Ladies.. Who's to say I can't do everything. Well I can try, and as I roll along I begin to find things aren't always just what they seem.. -Jack Johnson. Upside Down from his 'Songs & Lullabyes Curious George Soundtrack' album.


bo... g'nite, sweet dreams wine
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Dec 7, 2015 12:04 AM CST Just Got Reminded of something
bohemianjack
bohemianjackbohemianjackEast Central, Minnesota USA6 Threads 2 Polls 2,701 Posts
Cocheta: bo... g'nite, sweet dreams


Cocheta g'nite and sweet dreams.. smile




wine


Well if I was in your position I'd put down all my ammunition. I'd wondered why'd it taken me so long. But Lord knows that I'm not you and if I was I wouldn't be so cruel, cause waiting on love ain't so easy to do.. -Jack Johnson. Sitting, Waiting, Wishing. flower
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Dec 7, 2015 12:54 AM CST Just Got Reminded of something
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
Track16: This is how parties used to go for me. No one liked me or wanted anything to do with me so I wound up just like this guy, standing alone watching everyone else having fun.


Though you stood "alone" in fact as you see from other's comments that there are many of us that felt that same isolation. It was tough back then but as an adult I wonder if it is even more challenging as a Adult. At the end of the day I find that I am still the outsider. I can only say that in my life there were some times that I will remember when I was not so alone. I hope one day I will experience that once again.
(reminds me of "The Elephant Man")

;-}
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Dec 7, 2015 1:14 AM CST Just Got Reminded of something
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
I was "a bit of a Wild thing" when I was younger.. Got into a Lot of trouble, actualy, was never out of it!..Now though, I hate parties or crowds of people..so, I qualify to join this club grin snooty
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Dec 7, 2015 1:45 AM CST Just Got Reminded of something
Dragos1
Dragos1Dragos1Metro, Oregon USA54 Threads 1 Polls 1,982 Posts
serena123: I was "a bit of a Wild thing" when I was younger.. Got into a Lot of trouble, actualy, was never out of it!..Now though, I hate parties or crowds of people..so, I qualify to join this club


and you will always be welcomed with arms opened wide. Well, in my opinion.

hug

rose

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Dec 7, 2015 4:32 AM CST Just Got Reminded of something
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
I'd like to join the Loner's club also wave


It's getting a bit crowded though, so I'll sit quietly in a corner and just observe if that's ok laugh
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Dec 7, 2015 5:55 AM CST Just Got Reminded of something
serena123
serena123serena123durban, KwaZulu-Natal South Africa44 Threads 2 Polls 2,821 Posts
serene56: I'd like to join the Loner's club also It's getting a bit crowded though, so I'll sit quietly in a corner and just observe if that's ok

Welcome to the observer's club hug you can hang out in my corner if you like laugh
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Dec 7, 2015 6:06 AM CST Just Got Reminded of something
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
serena123: Welcome to the observer's club you can hang out in my corner if you like



Ooh that sounds deliciously dangerous Serena grin


My inner wild child and I accept applause laugh hug
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Dec 7, 2015 6:33 AM CST Just Got Reminded of something
Cocheta
CochetaCochetaunknown, Western Cape South Africa1 Threads 2,021 Posts
A big welcome to all you loners! Let's get this party started and do what we do best...


Observe! wine
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Dec 7, 2015 6:50 AM CST Just Got Reminded of something
rebel2
rebel2rebel2Alicante, Valencia Spain8 Threads 6,354 Posts
I stood alone. I never followed the crowd just to be part of something.
I believe it made me stronger, individual, one of a kind.
Anyone can be the same as anyone else. The true strength of character is shown in those that can stand alone and succeed in life.
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Dec 7, 2015 6:53 AM CST Just Got Reminded of something
Track16: This is how parties used to go for me. No one liked me or wanted anything to do with me so I wound up just like this guy, standing alone watching everyone else having fun.

That was me just as I dropped a few pills. 10mins later, tho. banana
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Dec 7, 2015 7:00 AM CST Just Got Reminded of something
TheRedSquirrel87
TheRedSquirrel87TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1,107 Posts
Track16: This is how parties used to go for me. No one liked me or wanted anything to do with me so I wound up just like this guy, standing alone watching everyone else having fun.


I'd force myself to get amongst it. Talking to girls was exceptional when really most lads in their natural, lazy and default state would sit in the corner and rate the alcopops.

The generic loner is anything but alone because everyone is Morrissey nowadays. It's so easy being a gimp and it's no wonder they're ten-a-penny.
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Dec 7, 2015 7:19 AM CST Just Got Reminded of something
TheRedSquirrel87
TheRedSquirrel87TheRedSquirrel87Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK1 Threads 1,107 Posts
TheRedSquirrel87: I'd force myself to get amongst it. Talking to girls was exceptional when really most lads in their natural, lazy and default state would sit in the corner and rate the alcopops.

The generic loner is anything but alone because everyone is Morrissey nowadays. It's so easy being a gimp and it's no wonder they're ten-a-penny.


And the ruse works. Not once did anybody realise the sheer amount of energy I was expending to appear normal. Track, if I can appear as a sane, functioning member of the human race without a thing anyone can do to prove otherwise then you definitely can. Put your spliff out, stop being entranced by your own uniqueness like a woman, and have a crack at something like a man does.
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