I'm curious about this as well. Do you give out "hints" that you'd like him to approach you? If so, could you give us clueless men some examples PLEASE!
No. Been there, done that. The one that moves is put at a disadvantage. If you do, you're giving the other person "home field advantage." That may not seem like a big deal, until the time comes when (not "if") you find yourself on your own.
Ok, referring only to the resolution that women receive more emails than men.
My theory: Numbers.
1) While it's not as lopsided as it once was, there are still more men online than women. 2) Men are trained to be more "forward" than women are, therefore they're more likely to initiate contact.
The combination of just these two factors results in women getting more email than men.
I believe it depends upon the person. Before I turned 40, I could get by on as little as 4 hours a night for as long as I wanted to. Now, though... I turn on Matlock or Murder She Wrote and I'm asleep by 8:30.
Yes, I've had that happen to me within the past month or so. Our buses run about once an hour, so it turned out that it was faster for me to walk than wait for the next one.
In that way, women ARE like buses - If you don't have a car, they come along so rarely that you gotta take care of it all by yourself.
I have someone in mind - but as far as I know she's not a member here. The reason I'd choose her, instead of having someone fulfill every wish and whim, is that a day with her would make me glad I'm dying soon.
A biological researcher was experimenting on a frog which would jump whenever he clapped his hands and said, "Jump!"
The researcher cut off one of the frog's legs, clapped his hands and said "jump"- the frog jumped. The researcher measured and wrote in his notebook, "Cut off one leg, frog jumps 1.27 meters."
The researcher cut off a second leg, clapped his hands and said "jump"- the frog jumped. After measuring, he wrote in his notebook, "Cut off second leg, frog jumps 1.01 meters."
The researcher cut off a third leg, clapped his hands and said "jump"- the frog jumped. Once again he measured the distance and wrote in his notebook, "Cut off third leg, frog jumps 0.62 meters."
The researcher cut off the fourth leg, clapped his hands and said "jump"- the frog just sat there. The researcher clapped his hands harder and said "Jump!"- the frog did not move. He clapped his hands even harder and shouted "JUMP!!" Still no reaction. He wrote in his notebook, "Cut off fourth leg, frog goes deaf."
It's unfortunate when a person turns to drugs. I believe the situation there is similar to that of alcoholism - that they have to hit bottom before waking up to the fact of how serious the condition is. All we can do is hope that the bottom isn't too painful.
If you're serious about finding someone, you'll need to find out what unchanging viewpoints people have. Politics is one of those areas where people rarely change their opinion.
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RE: would you be willing to move if you met the right one
Maybe the moon IS the woman (think about it