its very true, thanks ... they are the two most basic of needs that get fulfilled early in relationships, but get left behind later and then people ask, what happened? well duh ... y'all stopped communicating.
its NOT "what we want"!!! we want, or at least guys I know want the same thing you do, love and harmony ... if youre not getting it and we're not getting it, then neither if is getting "what we want" are we?
Its communication breakdown. Early in relationships women are more frisky and more touchy feely. Why do women stop doing that? see it takes two..
well, here is the most basic of needs. women communicate (generally, not all) verbally, men communicate (not all again, but generally) by touch. If you stop touching him and or he stops talkiing to you, either way, the doom begins.
if you want a man to hear, basically you have to communicate through touch not just words. again it is is not all men and women, but most, because we all have the same needs, just different levels of those needs. in other words, again generally, women want friends connections, men want lovers connections.
it takes 2 people for a relationship to fail. Blaming men for being less committed after "they get what they want" is 'hate men' mentality. Assuming that men only partake in realtionships to get laid is way off base and thinking that's all the problem is won't likely solve the real issue for anyone, which may indeed be your attitude toward men in general, especially since most men are just as heart broken when relationships end, in fact major depression from relationship break ups is more predominant in male than females. Its not about them getting laid at all.
You play as big a part in the relationship as they do. Both need to get what they need from it or it falls apart. Its not just women who are single. two minds.
RE: Say Something to Someone... blah, blah, blah....!!
there was an engagement thread?a secret engagement thread? are there two realites here again ...