I did not mean specifically at risk from cannabis, my apologies for not making that clear. They were young people from disadvantaged areas that were considered at risk regarding the route their lives could take.
I have worked with young people who are at risk , my knowledge is not from books or links but from what I have seen and experienced in my own life.
I actually shoudnt have posted to be honest, I usually refrain from threads that discuss this issue as I find ppl have there own ideas and can get very arguementative if they are not agreed with.
I am talking about friendship, I have said that if you feel you want to talk about getting serious with someone on here that you tell anyone else you are talking to about this and if both agree then you are going down the friends route. I have some male friends I am in contact with here and certainly wouldnt stop chatting to them because I was getting serious with someone else.
I dont feel you should cut off communication with anyone once people know you are hoping to have a serious relationship with another, after all do you stop talking to females in RL if you are in a relationship.
That I think is the key word here, I see no problem with exchanging mails and chatting to more than one person, after all this is a dating site and how are we to get to know someone if we dont chat. When it gets to the stage where you are talking 'seriously' I think it is time to tell the others that you are chatting 'seriously' to someone.
I dont think it is morbid to talk about death, it is a fact of life, the only thing we can be sure of. It is not something to be feared, my only fear is that of leaving before my children are independent. Other than that I believe that when we do die we get the peace we may crave, we will know the answers to any questions we may have.
RE: michael jackson historical icon
In what respect do you mean that?Because ppl are posting how they feel?