mmm methinks your ex has a multitude of problems the biggest being narcissm. the signs are there in what you write. You did the right thing in running for the hills and also you didnt do anything wrong in the local where you were. He is the one that should have done something, that is if he thought anything of you, I dont seriously think that was the reason for his departure, but it was a good and suitable excuse at the time. Another typical textbook trait of narcissm.
WK, maybe the lady in question had the blocker on because she doesnt wish to correspond with certain races, religions, etc. it is her choice who she wishes to block or not just the same you have exactly the same rights to do the same.
I block certain countries and certain age groups simply cos i am not interested. simple really and nothing to get out of your pram about. If you dont like then you will have to lump it.
RE: I thought all you ladies might appreciate this one! :-)
Reminds me of the track by Bill Cosby called NoahPMSL