It is subtly underhand manipulation...these men should be in jail. At least your friend is out of the marital home and I hope she has good people around her like you to support her. Xx
She is very slow to do anything that will seem severe and push him over the edge...she said she was afraid of him yet is slow to put the steps in motion ...we are baffled by her as it should be herself she looks after first then her kids...he shouldn't even be on the list....yet he calls to her unannounced a d can seem to tell her what's she's up to when he isn't around...it has all the mark of it going in a dark direction but she's still controlled and Brain washed...its difficult to look at
More power to them, I just don't find it aesthetically pleasing....its just my opinion....I would never date a man shorter than me and that's just my preference.
I'm in a position where a young married woman in my life has found herself now separated from her husband of 5 months....with 2 boys by him.
I was at her wedding, a nice smart beautiful funny and laid back young woman with everything going for her, had suddenly found herself with a man who ( according to her bridemaids had just married a man who instantly changed as quick as enroute to their reception).
We had no inclination that anything was wrong...but in the last 5 months he suddenly and sneakily had been coercively controlling her. Not giving her money, checking her phone, not "allowing" her out...not helping with the kids...having affairs...smashing up the house when he accused her of cheating ( she never did)...manipulated her....and these are just the beginning...she has left thr marital home and is living with her mother....he is still controlling her by constantly ringing...and we suspect stalking her every move...she seems to still be under his spell.
I'm at loss as are those close to her as to what to do...her character , being bubbly, happy care free is almost gone...yet she still entertains him.as just recently he has threatened suicide.
Love him, I've yet to watch half Nelson which is meant to be great with him in it too. I'll give this a go..ta gal. There's another movie called drive with him in it...don't waste ur time though it was shockingly bad
My day was good, a day off work to enjoy the unusual good weather we are getting. But alot of sadness in a family members life at the moment so just trying to keep positive for her.
I've never understood the tall woman and short man combo....just looks so wrong and mother and son like....only my opinion obviously but speaks to me of men who like controlling women and women liking to be the man in the relationship...
None, it may give you a sense of peace and momentary happiness to help others but to do it to expect a return makes a mockery of the kind act in the first place. Give and give and give , you can still have bad things happen you, if once in a while you get what you want then that's a just a nice happenstance, not much to do with Karma. IMO
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RE: Post your current mood in one word
Peaceful