Actually, Sommer, You are a very smart woman. I know many men and women on this site would make excellent partners, but various events occur in our lives. I don't know why people do the things they do to mess up their 'Love' lives, but we all do, or someone else does it to us.
I don't think I can force a woman who does not like to talk, to talk, plus what would you do if you met a man who never shuts up? God help us if we are square pegs who falls in love with round holes or should that be the reverse?
This one is too deep for me. Still need some more time to think. For some reason, my brain seem to have blown a fuse on this one. Is it like saying " I love you though you hurt me so, so I have to pack my things and go?"
So true, Sommer. Sometimes I feel, however, that a little shaking up, so to speak, is in order. I mean, if I am always coming home drunk, which upsets you, and you argue with me about it, you would think I would learn, right?
I think some marriages end because some people don't learn from their mistakes......etc. Also some mistakes are forgiven, but never forgotten. So we always think about it and wonder when it is going to happen again. Plus, when we believe someone deliberately set out to hurt us, the line between forgive and forget becomes blurred.
Of course, my feeling is that some divorces first began as a dare, and for no other good reason. JMO
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