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RE: Do most contacts answer the questions you ask them about themselves?

When they do that - - - it means they are scamers - - - Real person answers the question - - Same goes with girls who also write in the same way - -well I use the world "girls" conditionally Scamers also - - Probably the same ones

RE: Need a mans point of view

RE: 9/11 was an inside job, fabricated to justify an invasion of the middle east to obtain precious reso

Give it a rest with it already - - - will yaaa Yes it was an inside job - - We know - -- It is in the past

RE: Come back to me my mary, cause this is pure love.

Get a life - - Man up, Suck it up, and stop being a drama queen, who is seeking attention

RE: Which social network tht u love the most?

I cannot stand Twitter - - and I simply despise Face Book - - - I do not have neither of them. The ONLY social network I am on is CS - - Simply because of all the crack pots which I meet regularly on the forums - - - Then I at least don't feel so crazy, because I am among my "own people"

RE: Would you date someone.....

Honey, MOST adults are still sheep, and immature - - -Age has absolutely no influence on maturity

RE: Would you date someone.....

As long as there is not a huge age difference, sure. I would not date more than 5 years older woman as for younger. I'd go from somewhere like 24. 10 year difference at the most.

RE: Does one person or group really run the entire world ?

I can't come on man . . . . The point of leading the world from the shadows is exactly that, being in the shadows and not advertising it that much. So I trust you will keep my secret

RE: Does one person or group really run the entire world ?

YES

RE: How real is love at first sight?

Well I wish all the best to you - - - in any case Life is stranger than fiction

RE: How real is love at first sight?

So you agree with me

RE: How real is love at first sight?

One could call it also - - - "psychological disturbance" If it makes no sense - - - - that Chemical imbalanced stupidity called "Love at first sight"

RE: How real is love at first sight?

So what you just wrote, goes together with your notion of "love at first sight" - - Makes absolutely no sense

RE: How real is love at first sight?

Love at first sight - - - Hey I was stupid once when I was young - - Then I learned and figured out for what it is - - - - Pure idiotic infatuation, when one is stupid and does crazy things for another - - - because one does not see the real person behind all the biological BS - - - -

It happened and I learned - - that there is no "real love at first sight" - - - There is "love", that grows step by step when two people grow closer to each other, and open one another for each other

RE: How real is love at first sight?

I'd say some sympathy - - yes - - but not to be mistaken for "love". One has to start somewhere of course - - but love at first sight is only in books and movies and in people's imagination.

RE: How real is love at first sight?

It happens only in Books and Movies; in real life it is called Biology, and Chemistry. Two people give out a “mating scent”, which attracts one another to each other for breeding purposes. All the other Romantic stuff and notions are simply mating dances.

People, who speak about “chemistry”, have absolutely no idea what real love is. They often seek that adrenalin thing, - - that rush of feeling of being “in love”. That feeling is pure Chemical reaction to another person. When it passes, they stop “feeling love” - - - Unfortunately they do not understand, that it was simple infatuation, and it had nothing to do with “love”. They all the time cry and moan how always the same thing happens to them, being with the wrong person. Sure, because when mating dance begins, the rule “all is fair in love and war” applies. Both genders pretend, act and behave the way they usually do not. When chemistry weakens, both see the other for who they really are.

BUT if one is who one is, without any kind of pretending, and the other one too, then one can talk about love, because those two people grew closer, step by step without and kind of game playing, pretending, and basically lying about themselves. “You” still accept that person with all its imperfections, and that person does the same. Then those “two” actually have a snow ball’s chance in hell to make it, with hard but pleasurable work. Everything else is futile, is lying to one self and to others, it is not being honest to oneself and the other.

To love somebody is an art, and it is work. It is adjusting, accepting one another, it is communicating and it is consciously opening your heart and soul to another person (Goes both ways, otherwise what is the point?).

So for all of you out there - - - Grow up, and forget about the books, and movies - - - - Start living on this planet called earth, and understand that there is no such thing as love at first sight. It is CHEMISTRY and BIOLOGY.

I prefer to be loved with all my imperfections, then I’ll know she really loves me (goes both ways). Everything else is waste of time, money and energy, especially those “mating dances” and teenager infatuations where chemistry is working and pretending is “the name of the game”.

RE: what are you listening to now?

KLAPA CAMBI - Povij me

RE: what are you listening to now?

Klapa Cambi - Projdi vilo

RE: Is Christianity based on Myth? Or did Jesus ever exist?

Myth - - - - no doubt about that

RE: Are you careful when posting?

You are right about what you wrote in your posts - - - - I completely agree with you - - -

RE: If you found out you had a sibling out there somewhere (see details)

I actually HAVE this kind of situation she is 21 years younger then me, but she is my sister.

I saw her twice when she was a baby, and now about two months ago, I saw her again, at age 12 - - - - She always knew she has a brother, and now we are kind of getting to know each other, and building some form of a relationship - - - - what ever it might be, I made it clear to her and to my father ( it is his daughter ), that what ever past sins, he did, will not reflect on her, cos it is not her fault - - - -

It is not the child's fault for the sins of the father, and to blame "her" for his misdeeds, would be just come on - - - - She is her own person and I see her like that - - - I am a big brother, and boys who are hovering around her know- ( She is a very beautiful girl, which looks like 17 / 18, and she is smart too ), - that big brother is in the army and has access to weapons - - - -

RE: If your life was a movie, what genre would it be and why? And if it Romance, why are you here?

How things stand now I'd say my life is a Thriller, by all accounts - - - - -

RE: Are you careful when posting?

I speak my mind, with out thinking of potential partners Why should I - - - I am who I am - - if a woman will want to get to know me, my posts will be one of the reason, if she will be checking them out - - - In the end, my opinion on politics, religion and so on will not change - - - better for "her" to know me as I am - - no BS - - and there will be no surprises - - -

RE: Just "One Word" That Comes To Mind About The Person Above You

Intriguing

RE: Just "One Word" That Comes To Mind About The Person Above You

Naughty

RE: Just "One Word" That Comes To Mind About The Person Above You

Pale

RE: For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?

RE: How many times did you Date ?????

Enough times, to know, that it is safer on peacemaking and peace keeping missions somwewhere in the Middle East. . . . . Besides I stopped dating quite some time ago, not interested what so ever in any kind of dating

RE: For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?

The most honest answer so far I red here, and nobody could blame you for what ever you did, for the sake of your children.

RE: For the Ladies. Would You Ever Marry For Money And Security?

Well most often they actually do - - - - In the end it comes to security, and with money comes security. They feel that they and their kids will be taken care off, if the guy has enough means to take care of them.

Often when a man runs in to economical difficulties, due to loss of job, or what ever other reason. . . . That woman will soon move on to another guy, which will be able to take care of her - - - It is a primeval geneticall predisposition, and no mater how much women scream abut emancipation and equality - - - it comes down to what I just wrote.

I want to repeat - - - NOT ALWAYS AND NOT ALL WOMEN, far from it, but I'd say in most cases YES.

They also often get kids with the wrong guy, then after they already have them, and they stop - - - doing stupid things, and they mature to a certain level, they seek out a guy, who will be the father and a partner, they should have found to begin with. - - - We come down to that tiny paradox how good girls like bad boys, because they are exciting - - - after the excitement is gone, they seek out a good guy - - - WHO has means to take care of her and the kids.